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  1. planemo

    Things you miss about your childhood

    I miss having hair on my head, and having none on my body :LOL:
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    What animal would you like to be?

    Probably a lemur. It must be so much fun jumping between the trees of the rain forest.
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    Are you ever jealous of other people?

    Yes, I envy others who appear to be free from the circumstances which leave me feeling distressed and depressed.
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    Design your house

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    Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

    I have two choices: 1) stay away from toxic people and feel free, but lonely. 2) get back with toxic people and feel overwhelmed but less lonely.
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    Post what you cannot say

    I'm really in need of some good people in my life. Yes, People!
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    Post what you cannot say

    It's amazing. Even after everything people have put me through, the thing I want more than anything, is just for one of them to care.
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    Anyone else find it difficult to think good about themself?

    I don't know why, but it just seems very hard for me to think anything positive about myself. If someone compliments me, or is kind to me, or if someone smiles at me, I always dismiss it as undeserved. My mind never holds on to it. However if anyone is harsh or critical, I find it very hard to...
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    Does it ultimately boil down to Shame?

    Are all our shyness, low self esteem and anxiety problems just an extension of being ashamed of ourselves in some way? i feel it is for me. i've always been ashamed of myself, and then add in some very unfortunate physical, environmental and emotional characteristics and then you have a recipe...
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    Anyone else afraid to make the first move?

    The thing is i've been friendless for years now, and my only real life friend or something to that extent was my psychologist, but i've had to stop seeing her since she wanted me to become more social and join group therapy, and since there are others on the waiting list to see her. i have...
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    The Arrow (^/< /V) game

    it's a pretty easy game to play. just say something about the person the arrow is pointing to. the first arrow points to the person above you, the second points to yourself and the third, points to the person below you. you can say anything (as long as you stick to the rules of the forum). ^...
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    Anyone been to group therapy?

    Does anyone have any experience of group therapy? I'm thinking of going into it, but surprise, surprise i'm as scared as hell... :oh:
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    I can never do anything right

    Something I've noticed a lot in my life, is that people who are supposedly similar to you, by whatever circumstance tend to show less sympathy towards you when doing nothing. Teachers in primary school who were of same race and ethnicity, and social status - hated me, despite me not doing...
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    Bravado vs Shyness

    I really don't seem to have much bravado at all. Maybe it's the opposite of shyness. I've been wondering if it's something essential, a characteristic of the social, successful types? It seem seems wrong for me, to show any real confidence in myself, well maybe not wrong, perhaps unnatural is a...
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    Family Tormentors

    Anyone else have them? I've had many including some from my immediate family and extended family (relatives). I know one particular cousin loved associating me with a particular derogatory term, a few others discuss my avoidance with other people and laugh about it, and another cousin (who knows...
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    Fear of being stared at: How do you cope with it?

    I absolutely detest being looked at and stared by others. Most people think I'm being irrational when I think people stare at me and for the most part it's true, but on some occasions it has happened when people just can't take away their eyes and keep looking at me for an extended period, and I...
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    Guys, do you feel your shyness...

    makes you less of a man? I mean this in the sense of being assertive and in being able to fulfill positions of authority and leadership. I can never imagine myself being a leader, only a follower. I'm too afraid to talk to people, heck i'm afraid of just knowing they are there, and i have never...
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    Make a caption thread

    Thought it would be nice to use a bit of humour to describe some pictures. The game is pretty simple, just post a pic (that's not against the rules of the site and preferably without a caption). Then the person below will quote the pic and make a caption for it as well as posting his own pic...
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    world cup fantasy - anyone???

    world cup fantasy (game) - anyone??? well it's probably a long shot, but if anyone is interested in starting a fantasy cricket team at cricinfo.com you can pm me and we can start a league.
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    "It's all in your head"

    I'm sure many of us are used to people telling us "it's all in your head". The problem is that I don't dispute this, I agree totally that it's all in my head. If it wasn't, I would have the same perception and experiences like others who don't seem to have something wrong going on in their...
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