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Old 01-21-2017
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I can actually say now, after yrs of being alive and alone (either in a relationship or just alone) I really dislike humans and find interactions with them painful and boring, I can say now though- I do like and enjoy my own company and mean it. I no longer crave that perfect person to be with because they do not exist and that is freeing for me. I do believe I am all I need. I don't seek a person to complete me or a God to follow. I don't believe anyone or thing will "Save Me" anymore.

I think it has taken loosing It All so many times in one way or another to get me here. It's not a bad place though. It's the seeking and craving and clinging that was really killing me inside. Whoever said "Life is Suffering" was t i t s on and once a person realizes that, anything good that happens is just amazing!!
Good on you!
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I'm going to start a 3D printing service. Looking into work that can be done from home bares little to no fruit, so perhaps something like this works. Trying to get the funds together now - which is slower going than I had hoped.
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I'm going to start a 3D printing service. Looking into work that can be done from home bares little to no fruit, so perhaps something like this works. Trying to get the funds together now - which is slower going than I had hoped.
Good luck, Puma! Let us know how it goes.
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Thanks, Blue.
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^ Just heads up folks: Some Russian twat-monkey seems to have hijack this thread for a couple pages within the last hour or so.

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Old 01-21-2017
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Horrible week, socially-wise, and it' not getting any better. At least now I can bury my phone somewhere, lock myself in and just read until Monday.
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Old 01-21-2017
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Just spent four days out in the field with work colleagues. This was hugely challenging for me, a huge roller coaster of ups and downs. Workwise my contribution exceeded expectations, but socially it was torture. One of those on the trip was clearly uncomfortable with me/my anxiety. I had to eat dinner with them at a hotel, which is where my anxiety was most noticeable.

So it is three days later, and I can hardly sleep, going through the non-stop aftermath of worry and overthinking. And facing the consequences back in at work tomorrow, where I will likely be subjected to more tension and gossip.

I had thought of withdrawing from the trip, or taking medication to get through it, but the work was too important to me.

Being around people is hardly ever worth it.
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^Gosh I know how you feel. Good job surviving the whole thing. Trying to clear your mind tonight and keep it clear tomorrow is probably the best thing to do. There is no use to torture yourself about what people may or may not think of you since you have no control over it (not necessarily a useful comment, but always good to remember :P)
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I would rather be bored than stressed.
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Old 01-22-2017
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^ just heads up folks: Some russian twat-monkey seems to have hijack this thread for a couple pages within the last hour or so
aaaaargghhh, attack of the spams!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (IN CAPITALS)

ps i reported 2 of em, one from this thread, & one from the separate thread they made; they should all be gone soon
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I would rather be bored than stressed
Yes, i would have to agree. At least one's feelings are predictable & more-or-less "in order". But if the stress is managed well, then i would prefer that over extreme boredom (depression).
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Horrible week, socially-wise, and it' not getting any better. At least now I can bury my phone somewhere, lock myself in and just read until Monday.
I like that time of the week too PL, when I can shut the world out for a while. Go for a couple of runs, sleep a lot.
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Dammit! Why do I get most of my creative ideas in the middle o' the night when I really should be sleeping?
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PUZZLE: What is free, but priceless. You can't own it, but you can use it. You can't keep it, but you can spend it. Once you've lost it you can never get it back
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Well, hopefully...
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Sometimes those vacuous anxious thoughts can suck the joy out of what would otherwise be days of triumph.
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Sorry, that just made me chuckle for some reason.
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