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    Anxiety when others are watching me, fail at everything I do

    So today when I returned to job after some driving, some of coworkers where standig outside. When I came with the car, I saw they was looking at me. I had to park the car infront of them. Offcourse my first atempt failed. I almost hit another car, I didnt, but I was close. I tried several times...
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    The usual "why do everyone hates me thread"...

    I feel so alone :sad: It's even harder now. People at work wishing each other merry christmas, giving hugs and presents. How do you deal with this? Don't you get jealous, when everyone else gets social contact but not you? Being the quiet guy nobody talks to, care for or even see. It's so hard...
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    How would you feel about a hug?

    I want to hug another guy at work who have social anxiety (does this sound gay?) Well, anyway for me getting a hug is amazing. As I always have thoughts that people don't like me, that I'm disgusting, ugly and so on, a hug could really help me. This other guy is just like me, and that's why I...
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    Got furious on one of my leaders at work

    So I still had around 15-20 minutes left at work, and was standing by myself with nothing to do. The other coworkers was socializing off course, but they don't include me. So one of the leaders approach me, and ask me to count something. So I did, and got the answear. I took up my phone and...
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    I want to give him a gift for xmas

    So there is this guy at work I can relate to. He is just like me. He avoid all social situations and don't talk to anyone. He usually replies if I ask him something, or say hi to him or bye when he leaves. Nobody else there seems to care or talk to either of us, so I don't feel so alone anymore...
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    Coworker with social anxiety. I want to help him!

    I always felt misplaced, that I don't belong here, that I'm not normal for not beieng social and there is something wrong with me. I have social anxiety. But I'm not alone anymore... There is someone at work, he looks very nervous and insecure. He don't talk to anyone. And not anyone talks to...
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    So I wrote her a letter... Should I give it to her?

    I have posted this earlier, that several people from work have blocked me on facebook. They wont tell me why, and refuse to talk to me at work. One of the persons who blocked me, I had been talking to every night at facebook, since we became friends, a few months ago. She was very nice, and she...
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    It's not negative thoughts. Everyone hates me, and I can prove it!

    I feel so left out and alone all the time. Never gets invited to anything. Seeing my coworkes had a party or been togher the next day on facebook. It hurts. I always stand on the sideline watching the others become friends. Now during the summer, there are some new people. They have already...
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    Really depressed after 3 friends blocked me.

    Hi everyone. This will be a very long post... Hope you will read and advice me what I should do. I've started working at this new place 3 months ago. New start, and I tried to change, buy going directly to people, getting eyecontact and introduce myself. It went fine in the beginning, when...
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    Girl ask me on facebook if I'm in love with her

    So there is this really cute girl on work, which suddenly asked me out of nowhere if I'm in love with her. I replied that I'm not in love with her, but I told I think she's a cute girl. I asked her why she thought that, and she replies that many are saying it. I asked who, and then she replied...
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    I like girl at work

    There is a girl at work I like, actually I'm very interested in her. I met her at work and sat with her at lunch one time. It got a little akward. I asked her some questions, and she was very short, with just replying yes or no. When other people talks to her, she seems to talk a lot, and it...
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    Why can't I grow a beard?

    Whenever I go a while without shaving people start comenting and tell me to shave. Why? Now you really have to shave. I don't want to. My brother looks cool with beard. Since people says that I wonder if I can't grow a beard. That it looks really terible on me. What do you think? Is it normal...
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    What can I say to her to make her feel better?

    I have met a person I think have social anxiety. I'm a 33 year old male with social anxiety. Some days is so bad I can't even leave house. At work there is a girl, who don't talk. She have the same face all the time, she never shows any expressions/emotions, she avoids eye contact, and keep for...
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    Starting new in a sheltered workshop

    Duo to my health isuess I can no longer function in a normal job, and I will soon start adapted work in a sheltered workshop. To be giving this oppertunity to start a new life means a lot to me. Let's just say after 16 years in my old job, I don't have any friends there, or are even welcome...
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    So I become friends with my therapist

    So I've been going to this new therapist since november. She's around same age as me, and she has a brother I was friend with in school. I've been talking to her about my social phobia, how alone I feel, that I have no frieds and depession. I talked alot about feeling rejected. I tried to add...
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