Recent content by Flanscho

So for me, a bad mood / depressions / SA and so on come with a feeling of lethargy and apathy. Which makes me leave the house as little as possible and so on. Since I live alone, that means that I'm tempted to order unhealthy food, such as pizza. So one thing I try to do is cook stuff myself...

Situation is like this: November last year, I was working on a project at the company I work for (I'm a programmer). Suddenly one of my two bosses (they share the company) came in with a potential client, asking me whether I could realize some project. I said "sure, should I start with it once...

Hi. Following situation. Monday I went to work, thinking nothing special, and then my company fired me. They said they have not enough programming work for a programmer, so they can't afford my salary. I work there officially for one more month, but since there is nothing to do, I'm not there...

Since two years I work for a company creating websites and ads, as a programmer. Today, they approach me, saying that they don't have any projects in near time that require a programmer, and that they will use more often default solutions. And that they can't really afford having someone here...

Like, let's say you're on a party. It's getting too crowded, you just want to get out, say "goodbye" and are about to leave. A buddy approaches you and asks why you are leaving. What do you say? Do you use some excuse, such as "got to get up early tomorrow" or "still got work to do"? Or do you...

"Hey Flanscho, when's finally your housewarming party?" I get asked at times, even months after moving into my new flat. "Pfff, no party for you" I normally reply with a wink. Or "Hey, ain't your birthday soon, in October? What's with a party?" And my reply is "uuuhm.... " While birthday...

Hi there. New to this forums. When I was in my early 20s, that social phobia thing hit me really hard, but over the years it got better and better, and now I'm in my early 30. Last week, I was at two birthday parties. Normally, I can't stand birthday parties. If they're like three of my closest...