Graeme1988
Hie yer hence from me heath!
Just given the picture you have painted on this site on many occasions about your mother and siblings I can say that the arguments that I have are not to that extent. The thing is my Mom is a saint and she is just the best. Which is why I feel even worse for letting someone like that down all the time. The arguments are with the old man and my sibling. Sometimes it could get a bit out of control but nothing too serious as far as physical abuse is concerned. Lately though I have seen a decline in those arguments because I have become even more detached from the old man and sibling that I just don't acknowledge them that often. The real victim in all of this is my wonderful mother. I wish I WISHHHHHH I could turn back time and make sure she ended up getting married to a man who was worthy of her. That way the old man doesn't get her and heck I won't have to be born. I mean if that isn't a win win situation then I don't know what is, at least in my case.
Sorry to hear yer mother suffering as a result o' the argument. Equally not great that she's still with yer dad. No offence like, just that if he's being a complete arse, she really should leave him. Just sayin'... Not suggestion you n' her do that. Since I know money tends to dictate whether moving somewhere is even a option.
Though, good on ya for not acknowledging yer old man and, is brother? :question: :thumbup: As far as argument go. Best to keep quiet and not let 'em got to ya. So, don't feel too bad in that respect. Since they should, if they see sense and realise they're just causing more stress for yer mother.
I know I've kept to myself more with the recent family drama going on around me, for better or worse. But then there's only so much ye cun take afore ye snap and lose yer temper. At least, verbally. :kickingmyself: