voodoochild16
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I know a lot of people these days that go through social anxiety can get stuck in their lives. I am in that position right now. I created a poll just to get a good idea of how many people really are stuck like me.
To get past the point of being stuck, it would probably take motivation that most people going through chronic depression and severe anxiety, don't have. It's not our faults at all but, what would it take for you to do this and could you do it?. If you did do this, successfully, what did it take?, what inspired you?.
I unfortunately am someone who challenged his depression and tried to keep being motivated and I stayed being lonely to stay focused and did everything I could to try to achieve my goals. But depression, loneliness, anxiety, all got in my way and stopped me like walking into a brick wall.
I at least went back and got my GED for one, and that took a lot of energy and I honestly didn't even go to the grad party and didn't admit to anyone that I had graduated. I didn't even go out for dinner or anything. It's ten times different when you graduate late.
But the amount of focus I had put into achieving that goal of graduating is one to remember. I knew, and thought in my head, "I have to do just this one thing, and I will be able to do everything else right after". It was the only thing I needed to do to shut everyone up that was judging me. After I finished, it was like 1 ton of bricks taken off my shoulders.
I dedicated my life to that one thing, to just graduating, and achieve just that in about 4 months. On Christmas day I was even on the computer trying to finish a course.
But any ways, I picture the mindset of achieving all my future goals as being the same as how I achieved graduating. Dedicating my life to something has never been the so rewarding and you really learn how hard things are in life once you get to the place you want to be for any specific goal.
To get past the point of being stuck, it would probably take motivation that most people going through chronic depression and severe anxiety, don't have. It's not our faults at all but, what would it take for you to do this and could you do it?. If you did do this, successfully, what did it take?, what inspired you?.
I unfortunately am someone who challenged his depression and tried to keep being motivated and I stayed being lonely to stay focused and did everything I could to try to achieve my goals. But depression, loneliness, anxiety, all got in my way and stopped me like walking into a brick wall.
I at least went back and got my GED for one, and that took a lot of energy and I honestly didn't even go to the grad party and didn't admit to anyone that I had graduated. I didn't even go out for dinner or anything. It's ten times different when you graduate late.
But the amount of focus I had put into achieving that goal of graduating is one to remember. I knew, and thought in my head, "I have to do just this one thing, and I will be able to do everything else right after". It was the only thing I needed to do to shut everyone up that was judging me. After I finished, it was like 1 ton of bricks taken off my shoulders.
I dedicated my life to that one thing, to just graduating, and achieve just that in about 4 months. On Christmas day I was even on the computer trying to finish a course.
But any ways, I picture the mindset of achieving all my future goals as being the same as how I achieved graduating. Dedicating my life to something has never been the so rewarding and you really learn how hard things are in life once you get to the place you want to be for any specific goal.