No One Wants MotherWolff

MikeyC

MikeyC

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MotherWolff said:
Well, I would like to meet someone at a young age like all of my brothers and sisters did. I get so jealous when I see how successful their marriage life is and I am left wondering why my life couldn't be similar to them. I feel like I have to be the first to come up to a guy and say something for him to even notice me. I'm like a shadow to the men that I happen to be attracted to. Why? Its just not fair, ya know? I apologize if it seems like I am feeling sorry for myself.......
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I don't know what to say except to just keep trying. The more you try, the more chance you'll find a guy who is compatible.
 
Kat

Kat

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Oh, you will find someone I don’t know why more people on here haven’t hooked up. ::p:
 
C

Conspiracy

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MotherWolff said:
Hi Everyone!::p: Now I don't want to sound like I'm whining but I just can't seem to get any man to fall in love with me. I'm too frightened to talk to men in person. I can't even make men friends let alone women friends. I just want to experience an intimate relationship with a good man. I feel like the only guys that are actually attracted to me are the ones that are no good for me.

I just don't know what I can do to make myself more attractive. I believe that my social anxiety/phobia holds me back from attracting a positive man. Please let me know if any of you Social Phobia World citizens go through the same thing(male or female, doesn't matter). Or hand me some valuable advice. Help MotherWolff.::(:
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Whenever you feel like you're holding yourself back from entering a potential relationship, just tell yourself this "I'll only live once. Once I'm gone, all these things that I wanted to do will just be a faraway dream that I didn't reach". You've got one life, take advantage of it, enjoy it
 
Sial Axetder

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Kat said:
Oh, you will find someone I don’t know why more people on here haven’t hooked up. ::p:
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Problem is distance. Its hard to do. A lot here are some distances away from each other. Been through 3 potential long distance relations, its hard.
 
Kat

Kat

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1BlackSheep said:
Thanks for mentioning that important point, Kat! :) Not all of us have beauty pageant photos!
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I bet you look great! I don't think I would care if you wore a bag over you head. You seem like a great lady. :)
I hate my photos too I don't look like a beauty queen I appreciate beauty on people whether it's in or out but a photo seems more like an impossible art form.
 
MotherWolff

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I suppose all I can do is to keep on trying with online dating first. But I have yet to receive a serious reply. I mean, one guy had a conversation with me about a fantasy where he's four inches tall and he's being dominated by an African-American woman. Things like that piss MotherWolff off!:mad: I bet this sounds really stupid and childish but I want things to be faster than it is now. Little to no men have replied to me over a 3 or 4 month period. I've been to a couple of other dating sites but the same thing happened, so now I am just sticking to one. And you have to pay for most of them too.......I wouldn't mind paying or anything, I just do not have the resources right now. And this means so much to me....::(:
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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All you can do is persist with it, MotherWolff. The longer you're there, the more chance you'll get a serious reply. Don't give up.
 
hoddesdon

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Perhaps you could take the initiative and contact someone, or not restrict yourself to an age range.
 
hidwell

hidwell

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MotherWolff said:
I suppose all I can do is to keep on trying with online dating first. But I have yet to receive a serious reply. I mean, one guy had a conversation with me about a fantasy where he's four inches tall and he's being dominated by an African-American woman. Things like that piss MotherWolff off!:mad: I bet this sounds really stupid and childish but I want things to be faster than it is now. Little to no men have replied to me over a 3 or 4 month period. I've been to a couple of other dating sites but the same thing happened, so now I am just sticking to one. And you have to pay for most of them too.......I wouldn't mind paying or anything, I just do not have the resources right now. And this means so much to me....::(:
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Well this is what it is like for many men , dating websites are nothing more than businesses who only care about making money.
 
Sial Axetder

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hidwell said:
Well this is what it is like for many men , dating websites are nothing more than businesses who only care about making money.
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I was going to say this, about this is what its like for many men. It is.

About them sites being businesses; some will stoop as low as to send bot messages after you to keep you paying.
 
InvisaLady

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Yep, I've stuck with OKC because it is free. Now the number of messages that I have gotten from men who I would never consider is astronomic in ratio to the ones whom I would consider. But I have had slightly better luck contacting the people who's profiles interested me, rather than waiting for them to message me.
 
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InvisaLady said:
Yep, I've stuck with OKC because it is free. Now the number of messages that I have gotten from men who I would never consider is astronomic in ratio to the ones whom I would consider. But I have had slightly better luck contacting the people who's profiles interested me, rather than waiting for them to message me.
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What? OKC was not good for me. No body near me wanted to deal with me. There was very few.
 
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