How are you feeling?
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WeirdyMcGee
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Do things you enjoy and keep yourself distracted.
You may just find that those feelings were fleeting and what other people say has little influence on how you feel about yourself.
I hope that's the case for you!
Deus_Ex_Lemur
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Comments suck, but who was it? Seems not worth letting get you down, this feeling will fade. Screw 'em because you aren't worthless or boring to the core or any of that utter rubbish :
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twiggle
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i was feeling quite down, and then i saw a picture of one of my friend with a butterfly thats sitting on her fingertip and shes took many photos with it! it looks so wonderful, it cheered me up! i cant believe that butterfly didnt flew away! thats whats makes it wonderful and shes a beautiful person!
That's so cute, 'gu. One of life's naturally beautiful moments caught on camera. Butterflies are lovely creatures, it always amazes me to think how they used to be caterpillars.
Wish I could go in a cocoon and morph into something else
I'm feeling mixed today. On one hand I've made a new friend - met with him today, purely platonic and we just hit it off as friends right away. He's really interesting and funny.
On the other hand... I still feel sad that I still haven't chatted to a couple of my 'close friends' in weeks and weeks. They didn't reply to my messages, it made me paranoid. And I see them 'online' on the FB chat and wish I had the courage to open a window but I'm scared of being blanked again :
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Deus_Ex_Lemur
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That's so cute, 'gu. One of life's naturally beautiful moments caught on camera. Butterflies are lovely creatures, it always amazes me to think how they used to be caterpillars.
Wish I could go in a cocoon and morph into something else
I'm feeling mixed today. On one hand I've made a new friend - met with him today, purely platonic and we just hit it off as friends right away. He's really interesting and funny.
On the other hand... I still feel sad that I still haven't chatted to a couple of my 'close friends' in weeks and weeks. They didn't reply to my messages, it made me paranoid. And I see them 'online' on the FB chat and wish I had the courage to open a window but I'm scared of being blanked again :
Good for you! Nothing wrong with new friends. I've been the same to my own close friends tho... for over a month now heh I've responded with excuses to some emails, but just avoiding them gets worse and worse =D Just gets more awk the longer you let it slide... but clearly it won't get less so may as well just do it. Soon =D
I wish that things others told me didn't matter that much, but when it comes from certain ppl and seems like the truth, I sometimes can't help it!But you're right I'm going to just keep myself distracted and wait till it fades.
It was my friend, she said something unintentionally which seemed like the truth and then tried to fix it and it just got worse!Comments suck, but who was it? Seems not worth letting get you down, this feeling will fade. Screw 'em because you aren't worthless or boring to the core or any of that utter rubbish :
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Beatrice
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A little hungover Thought I wouldn't end up with one if I only drank a certain amount.... guess I thought wrong. Thankfully, it's tolerable.
Thought I wouldn't end up with one if I only drank a certain amount.... guess I thought wrong. Thankfully, it's tolerable.
twiggle
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Yeah, it was really lovely to see, i wish i can share the photo with you guys, she manage to have the butterfly sit on her nose and open its wings. Just her smiles, cheers me up. in general, she has lots of nice pictures. and she has two cute pets. a turtle and a dog.
and thats really good to hear how things is going, at least your doing your bit, and im sure they respond sometime soon, but i knw wot u mean, it does feel like they ignoring us when u see them online and they not replying. but if they dont respond, then well, their loss.. but never be afraid to make the moves, because its courageous and thats a good quality!
I should but I just can't do it at the moment :'( It was hard enough sending the messages. I want to write again, but wonder why I should even have to when they clearly didn't reply to my message
I wish people were just blunt and honest instead of playing mind games.
Deus_Ex_Lemur
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I should but I just can't do it at the moment :'( It was hard enough sending the messages. I want to write again, but wonder why I should even have to when they clearly didn't reply to my message
I wish people were just blunt and honest instead of playing mind games.
Apologies, misread what u said thought you didnt reply to their messages... not them to yours. Sorry... THAT ugh. Well I know THAT as well =D Obviously worse than you yourself not replying but then again maybe similar reasons? I dont know your friends but I've found there's usually less dramatic reasons for not replying... imagination can go bonkers. Try asking again? It's hard and awk but would qualm things either way.
Deus_Ex_Lemur
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A little hungover
Well you now know you're a tolerable lightweight
twiggle
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I'm going to be a very bad AvPD and SA-er and say "I just can't do it tonight". If it doesn't work I won't be able to sleep.
I'd rather have my ears pierced by a lemur haha.
I really envy people who can just start conversations online. I always get so scared, like I'm invading somebody's privacy or something. Like the guy I met today seems to find it so easy just to initiate talking to people. Perhaps he can re-teach me how to do it.
pingu07
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I should but I just can't do it at the moment :'( It was hard enough sending the messages. I want to write again, but wonder why I should even have to when they clearly didn't reply to my message
I wish people were just blunt and honest instead of playing mind games.
are your friends the type who reply back asap? .. maybe they will likely reply to you quicker when you chat to them instantly on the mini messenger on fb? i would give it a try.. you have nothing to lose from trying. at least you know why they not replying.. and you can ask how are you.. and asked whether they got ur msg or not.. i would not waste another sleepless night over this.
I would do that.. and i have done that.. i have a friend who even post on her status.. that shes sorry she hasnt replied to her friends emails. so maybe ur friend are busy! so, they could be like her! you can give it a try
plus its been a few weeks!
twiggle
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are your friends the type who reply back asap? .. maybe they will likely reply to you quicker when you chat to them instantly on the mini messenger on fb? i would give it a try.. you have nothing to lose from trying. at least you know why they not replying.. and you can ask how are you.. and asked whether they got ur msg or not.. i would not waste another sleepless night over this.
I would do that.. and i have done that.. i have a friend who even post on her status.. that shes sorry she hasnt replied to her friends emails. so maybe ur friend are busy! so, they could be like her! you can give it a try
Its mixed. I'm really reluctant to do it at the moment because the status is the half-moon thing. There could be a reason but its still a bit strange.
I won't do anything tonight I don't think, but perhaps if I say on this thread that I'll do it in the next few days then I actually will, because I never don't do something if I've said I will. Like an official online oath haha, to show the gratitude to Deuxy and 'Guey for their advice and that it will force action
Deus_Ex_Lemur
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Its mixed. I'm really reluctant to do it at the moment because the status is the half-moon thing. There could be a reason but its still a bit strange.
I won't do anything tonight I don't think, but perhaps if I say on this thread that I'll do it in the next few days then I actually will, because I never don't do something if I've said I will. Like an official online oath haha, to show the gratitude to Deuxy and 'Guey for their advice and that it will force action
It is late over there, it's a great thing to do early tomorrow. =) And the lemur piercing your ear comment is funny since no one else has any idea =D
Anyways we'll hold you to the oath! Pinky promise
pingu07
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Its mixed. I'm really reluctant to do it at the moment because the status is the half-moon thing. There could be a reason but its still a bit strange.
I won't do anything tonight I don't think, but perhaps if I say on this thread that I'll do it in the next few days then I actually will, because I never don't do something if I've said I will. Like an official online oath haha, to show the gratitude to Deuxy and 'Guey for their advice and that it will force action
Hah, yeah what Lemur said, Pinky Promise
twiggle
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It is late over there, it's a great thing to do early tomorrow. =) And the lemur piercing your ear comment is funny since no one else has any idea =D
Anyways we'll hold you to the oath! Pinky promise
Hah, yeah what Lemur said, Pinky Promise
Pinky promise it is!
I get a lot of motivation from this site sometimes
Thank you both.
Phoenixx
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Depressed, and I think I'm kinda angry at myself. For once I just want to be able to talk to somebody without feeling nervous, without focusing on how I'm feeling or how the other person is looking at me as I talk. It's always these little things that I focus on, then I still obsess about them hours later. ::
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ridicule
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Depressed, and I think I'm kinda angry at myself. For once I just want to be able to talk to somebody without feeling nervous, without focusing on how I'm feeling or how the other person is looking at me as I talk. It's always these little things that I focus on, then I still obsess about them hours later. :
Sometimes it can't be helped
thegunners21
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I fell asleep while watching spike TV, after 10 cups of coffee and you're still not here.
Nobody likes you, everyone left you, they're all out without you, having fun
Nobody likes you, everyone left you, they're all out without you, having fun
Deus_Ex_Lemur
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Depressed, and I think I'm kinda angry at myself. For once I just want to be able to talk to somebody without feeling nervous, without focusing on how I'm feeling or how the other person is looking at me as I talk. It's always these little things that I focus on, then I still obsess about them hours later. :
More Skype? Or RL? Well regardless, just takes... "practice" or experience. More you do, more get to know person too less these things will factor in; nerves still be there but that's sorta good, means you care =) When it interferes to the extent it hurts and stops you from doing things or not doing WHAT you want then it becomes as you said...
But you're doing well methinksyes.