SickJoke
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getbornagain said:somebody needs to enlighten me.
how the **** do you go from conversation to fooling around... whats the ****in password?! cannot for the life of me figure this one out. help me make the transition o wise sickjoke.....
LMAO
All right, my son, I will bless you with my wisdom.
If you've been talking to a girl for a while, and suddenly you want to start touching her, she's gonna deny access.
The trick is to start touching her immediately, as soon as the conversation starts. That doesn't mean walk up and grab her ass. [Disclaimer: I cannot be held accountable for sexual harassment charges.]
So here's what you do. You'll start out with light touching, and progress all the way to... sex?! This is called kino escalation. Kino is short for kinesthetic, aka touching.
Bear in mind this is a simplified version:
STEP 1: Say your opener (this could be a simple "Hi!") Touch her arm/shoulder with your left hand. Shake hands with your free hand.
STEP 2: While you're talking, be expressive with your hands. Touch her arm to convey that you understand what she's saying. Before you tell a story, push her shoulder back gently as if saying "Get this..."
STEP 3: As the conversation gets more playful, add in more playful touching. Bump your hip against hers, see if she bumps back. Poke her belly when you tease her. Say "Hey, follow me I wanna show you something" and take her hand. Squeeze her hand, see if she squeezes back.
STEP 4: As the attraction heats up, start adding in some more sexual touching. Touch her hair. If she pulls away, tell her there was a piece of fuzz in her hair . If she's ok with it, smell her hair and tell her she smells nice. Do triangle gazing: Gaze at her right eye, then her left, then her lips, and repeat. If she's smiling, move in for the kiss.
There you go, grasshopper. May the force be with you and all that shit