KiaKaha
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or lots of friends but on a more superficial level?
Or to put it another way - would you like develop closer deeper relationships with only just a few people or is it more personally preferable to have a lot of people in your life who only know you on a surface level?
I am not all that good with people at the best of times so I tend to develop quality relationships/friendships with few people that I can identify with - developing it deeper over time. Not everyone notices me or is interested, which is fine by me, and I am not really interested in unpleasant, selfish types - I cant handle that many people anyway - I just become exhausted.
Others perhaps have a lot of people in their life - or maybe just get along with a lot more people but only develop a very casual one dimensional relationship with them.... not that there is anything wrong with that of course.
Just wondering where you all fit in - or if you have a perspective or opinion on the matter.
Or to put it another way - would you like develop closer deeper relationships with only just a few people or is it more personally preferable to have a lot of people in your life who only know you on a surface level?
I am not all that good with people at the best of times so I tend to develop quality relationships/friendships with few people that I can identify with - developing it deeper over time. Not everyone notices me or is interested, which is fine by me, and I am not really interested in unpleasant, selfish types - I cant handle that many people anyway - I just become exhausted.
Others perhaps have a lot of people in their life - or maybe just get along with a lot more people but only develop a very casual one dimensional relationship with them.... not that there is anything wrong with that of course.
Just wondering where you all fit in - or if you have a perspective or opinion on the matter.
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