Women have it easy.

[LittleMissScareAll]

Probably but that's not realistic...Jared Leto & Tom Green wouldn't want anything to do with me(though I did have a nice dream about Jared last night :twisted: ) I would have never left him for some other average, everyday guy, no matter what. I had guys wanting me to dump my ex so they could get together with me(and one of them I would have went out with instantly if I had been single--I really liked him), but I loved the stupid beaknose thing(my ex) THAT much that I wouldn't leave him for anyone else, and he turns around and does it to me anyway, just for some stupid below-average looking girl who didn't care anything about him, after all the things I done for him. I'm sure he'll NEVER find another girl who treated him as good as I did. But that's what people want...people who treat them like shit. Apparently. Now I wish I had dumped him for the Directv guy who wanted to go out with me. :evil: Not because I liked him, but just because the damn tv guy probably would have treated me better. Certainly couldn't have treated me any worse.
And no, I've never left anyone for another person before. I think it's an extremely shitty thing to do to somebody. And if they do do that, they should at least have the decency to say it as soon as it happens, and not lie about it. That's the thing that hurts the most...being lied to. It would have been more understandable if he had just told me when he started having feelings for this girl, but instead he tells her first and goes on telling me he loves me and all that other B.S. he said to me, all lies. That's what bugs me the most...for 2 weeks after that he continued pretending to love me, when all he wanted was the ugly whore who didn't want him anyway. Yeah there have been people I was talking about dating, but NOT ACTUALLY DATING yet, and somebody better has came along and I went with them instead...but I wouldn't just throw away somebody I was in an actual serious relationship with like that for somebody else. He knew how I was before he dated me and if he thinks I'm dumb enough to believe he didn't realize after 7 months that we "had nothing in common" :roll:... I know he would have known that before then.

 

[Thelema]

Probably but that's not realistic...Jared Leto & Tom Green wouldn't want anything to do with me(though I did have a nice dream about Jared last night :twisted: ) I would have never left him for some other average, everyday guy, no matter what. I had guys wanting me to dump my ex so they could get together with me(and one of them I would have went out with instantly if I had been single--I really liked him), but I loved the stupid beaknose thing(my ex) THAT much that I wouldn't leave him for anyone else, and he turns around and does it to me anyway, just for some stupid below-average looking girl who didn't care anything about him, after all the things I done for him. I'm sure he'll NEVER find another girl who treated him as good as I did. But that's what people want...people who treat them like shit. Apparently. Now I wish I had dumped him for the Directv guy who wanted to go out with me. :evil: Not because I liked him, but just because the damn tv guy probably would have treated me better. Certainly couldn't have treated me any worse.
And no, I've never left anyone for another person before. I think it's an extremely shitty thing to do to somebody. And if they do do that, they should at least have the decency to say it as soon as it happens, and not lie about it. That's the thing that hurts the most...being lied to. It would have been more understandable if he had just told me when he started having feelings for this girl, but instead he tells her first and goes on telling me he loves me and all that other B.S. he said to me, all lies. That's what bugs me the most...for 2 weeks after that he continued pretending to love me, when all he wanted was the ugly whore who didn't want him anyway. Yeah there have been people I was talking about dating, but NOT ACTUALLY DATING yet, and somebody better has came along and I went with them instead...but I wouldn't just throw away somebody I was in an actual serious relationship with like that for somebody else. He knew how I was before he dated me and if he thinks I'm dumb enough to believe he didn't realize after 7 months that we "had nothing in common" :roll:... I know he would have known that before then.

I have a thing for Slymenstra from GWAR and Scully for the X files myself. It is human nature to want something you can't have. I have sort of the same thing going on with me. I'm always there for my friend pretty much 24/7 she tells me things like "you are the kind of man I want to merry" but she isn't in love with me. She's in love with a man that she thinks loves her but its so obvious he doesn't but because she can't have him she wants him more than life itself. She has me as a friend so she doesn't need to chase me if I'm not running. She tells me I'm so sweet and caring and I'm such a good man then she tells me how many times she has sex with another man...I've become the door mat...She has me for support so she can go chase after men that just want her for sex but what does she care she has me when its all over and they leave her....All the while I've made perfectly clear how I feel about her. I've learned being a good guy and being a door mat are two different things entirely. If she even mentions another guy I'm just going to stop talking to her. If she asks why I'm not going to tell her. If she treats me like a second class citizen when some other guy is around I'm going to ignore her as well. I will no longer be somebody she can walk all over....had to vent sorry.

Simple fact of attraction is if there is something you can't have it becomes a whole lot more attractive. You might be the girl he would have married some day who knows but if something more attractive comes along its pretty much over. Its a deep down thing that works far from any logical reason. If there isn't any attraction there can't be any relationship. My advice to anyone is NEVER become a door mat that they can walk all over . Nobody is attracted to a door mat.

 

[romeno82]

if you women would know how easy you have it compared to a male life. they start telling you in kindergarten what assholes mens are, how perveted mens are... i have had the first GF at age 20, the first 2 months that we meet togheter i was each time fully drunk cos i coulsnt stand it. i have since childhood had mental problems, and an immense sense of inferiority, an incredible insecurity. as men you cant have insecurities, or you are a pussy. but the worst thing was not even been able to come in contact to women, so incredibly alone, without even get to talk to girls. i really think women dont like men, in counterpart men love women most then all. sometimes i just think women are asexual. but for me sex means life, and my conclusion is most womens are just so deadly asexual that i dont want even look at them, for me they just dont exist.

 

[crazyfairyx]

if you women would know how easy you have it compared to a male life. they start telling you in kindergarten what assholes mens are, how perveted mens are... i have had the first GF at age 20, the first 2 months that we meet togheter i was each time fully drunk cos i coulsnt stand it. i have since childhood had mental problems, and an immense sense of inferiority, an incredible insecurity. as men you cant have insecurities, or you are a pussy. but the worst thing was not even been able to come in contact to women, so incredibly alone, without even get to talk to girls. i really think women dont like men, in counterpart men love women most then all. sometimes i just think women are asexual. but for me sex means life, and my conclusion is most womens are just so deadly asexual that i dont want even look at them, for me they just dont exist.

That's all just nonsense to be completely honest with you. I have a higher sex drive than a lot of men! A lot of girls I know do. You should ask yourself this, if you hate women so much why SHOULD they want to be with you? Everyone has insecurities, but you can't blame a woman for not wanting to have a relationship with someone who spends all his time with her drunk, or is so convinced that women are asexual that he begins to hate them. Why should a woman want that?

Pretty much no-one has an easy time with relationships, especially anyone with sa, but anything worth having is worth working for, and if you're willing to give up so easily and place ALL the blame on women, then no wonder you're not having much luck.

 

[Quixote]

I'm learning more every day that everything you hear about love is pretty much bullshit. We just settle for who we can get and convince ourselves that they love us and we love them but when something a little better comes along they don't give a shit about you. They have suddenly found the love of their life and you could die tomorrow for all they care. Another sad fact is we probably all have done this to someone. You know what I mean?

Completely agree

i really think women dont like men, in counterpart men love women most then all. sometimes i just think women are asexual. but for me sex means life, and my conclusion is most womens are just so deadly asexual that

I used to think more or less the same, but it's quite wrong. They are not asexual, they are just a bit more selective than we are. Quality of their partner matters a lot for them (not surprising if you think of the limited amount of children a woman can give birth to). Shyness unfortunately is not usually seen as a high quality feature..

 

[haze]

women do have it easier. but complaining about it isnt going to do anything, either just get on with it or give up (wish i had the courage to get on with it).

 

[romeno82]

You should ask yourself this, if you hate women so much why SHOULD they want to be with you?

i didnt say i hate women. i said the opposite. i said i love women but they dont love me/us mens.

 

[crazyfairyx]

You should ask yourself this, if you hate women so much why SHOULD they want to be with you?

i didnt say i hate women. i said the opposite. i said i love women but they dont love me/us mens.

You sure don't sound like you like women much.

Of course women love men, they love the men they fall for. I love my boyfriend very much. The problem is, everyone is entitled to love anyone they choose to love. No-one HAS to love anyone. Your problem is, no-one has fallen for you, and so you assume it's because all women are evil, it's not because of that, it's because they don't click with you and fall in love with you. Why should they love you if they don't feel that connection with you? And why should you hate them so much for not forcing themselves into thinking they love someone they don't?

 

[romeno82]

you are right,
im a crap, im shit, and disgusting,
im the most rejected guy on earth,
im not even a men,
but now i can live with it

 

[SocialRetahd]

You sure don't sound like you like women much.

Of course women love men, they love the men they fall for. I love my boyfriend very much. The problem is, everyone is entitled to love anyone they choose to love. No-one HAS to love anyone. Your problem is, no-one has fallen for you, and so you assume it's because all women are evil, it's not because of that, it's because they don't click with you and fall in love with you. Why should they love you if they don't feel that connection with you? And why should you hate them so much for not forcing themselves into thinking they love someone they don't?

Women are a lot more picky, but they seem to fall for the same type of guy. I don't believe in the connection/chemstry bs. You have to deal with a lot of girls(being rejected) before you can become the guy they think they are looking for. When I say a lot, I'm thinking 15 a day.

 

[LittleMissScareAll]

The thing is these people he dumped me for are UGLY...I saw a pic of the girl he's seeing now and she is hideous. So he didn't see something "more attractive" come his way...someone who's a drug addict, a drunk, and a whore is more like it.
And I will never be a door mat. In fact I've realized I'll probably end up alone and I don't really care anymore.

I have a thing for Slymenstra from GWAR and Scully for the X files myself. It is human nature to want something you can't have. I have sort of the same thing going on with me. I'm always there for my friend pretty much 24/7 she tells me things like "you are the kind of man I want to merry" but she isn't in love with me. She's in love with a man that she thinks loves her but its so obvious he doesn't but because she can't have him she wants him more than life itself. She has me as a friend so she doesn't need to chase me if I'm not running. She tells me I'm so sweet and caring and I'm such a good man then she tells me how many times she has sex with another man...I've become the door mat...She has me for support so she can go chase after men that just want her for sex but what does she care she has me when its all over and they leave her....All the while I've made perfectly clear how I feel about her. I've learned being a good guy and being a door mat are two different things entirely. If she even mentions another guy I'm just going to stop talking to her. If she asks why I'm not going to tell her. If she treats me like a second class citizen when some other guy is around I'm going to ignore her as well. I will no longer be somebody she can walk all over....had to vent sorry.

Simple fact of attraction is if there is something you can't have it becomes a whole lot more attractive. You might be the girl he would have married some day who knows but if something more attractive comes along its pretty much over. Its a deep down thing that works far from any logical reason. If there isn't any attraction there can't be any relationship. My advice to anyone is NEVER become a door mat that they can walk all over . Nobody is attracted to a door mat.

 

[Thelema]

The thing is these people he dumped me for are UGLY...I saw a pic of the girl he's seeing now and she is hideous. So he didn't see something "more attractive" come his way...someone who's a drug addict, a drunk, and a whore is more like it.
And I will never be a door mat. In fact I've realized I'll probably end up alone and I don't really care anymore.

I have a thing for Slymenstra from GWAR and Scully for the X files myself. It is human nature to want something you can't have. I have sort of the same thing going on with me. I'm always there for my friend pretty much 24/7 she tells me things like "you are the kind of man I want to merry" but she isn't in love with me. She's in love with a man that she thinks loves her but its so obvious he doesn't but because she can't have him she wants him more than life itself. She has me as a friend so she doesn't need to chase me if I'm not running. She tells me I'm so sweet and caring and I'm such a good man then she tells me how many times she has sex with another man...I've become the door mat...She has me for support so she can go chase after men that just want her for sex but what does she care she has me when its all over and they leave her....All the while I've made perfectly clear how I feel about her. I've learned being a good guy and being a door mat are two different things entirely. If she even mentions another guy I'm just going to stop talking to her. If she asks why I'm not going to tell her. If she treats me like a second class citizen when some other guy is around I'm going to ignore her as well. I will no longer be somebody she can walk all over....had to vent sorry.

Simple fact of attraction is if there is something you can't have it becomes a whole lot more attractive. You might be the girl he would have married some day who knows but if something more attractive comes along its pretty much over. Its a deep down thing that works far from any logical reason. If there isn't any attraction there can't be any relationship. My advice to anyone is NEVER become a door mat that they can walk all over . Nobody is attracted to a door mat.

A drunk whore is what a lot of guys want to be honest. She is probably exactly what he's looking for. You may want to believe different but its true. The easy girl will have a lot more friends and have a lot of people around but they're only around when times are good. When they crash down girls like that find themselves alone and sad when their friends have used them and left them. But are girls so different? If there was a guy willing to shower you in everything he could buy with his money wouldn't you rather be with him?

Sure you care. We all need love. We just can't have it yet because we're different.

 

[LittleMissScareAll]

A drunk whore is what a lot of guys want to be honest. She is probably exactly what he's looking for. You may want to believe different but its true. The easy girl will have a lot more friends and have a lot of people around but they're only around when times are good. When they crash down girls like that find themselves alone and sad when their friends have used them and left them. But are girls so different? If there was a guy willing to shower you in everything he could buy with his money wouldn't you rather be with him?

Sure you care. We all need love. We just can't have it yet because we're different.

Well I dont really care anymore, it's over and out of my control. And I hate him now anyway. I hope she cuts his dick off. :twisted:
And no I wouldn't want to be with someone who could buy me everything I wanted.....well ok that sounds good, but I would never leave somebody for that reason, just to be with somebody who would buy me what I wanted. If I didn't like the person for their personality(and yes, looks--call me shallow if you want) then it just wouldn't work for me. In fact I've been in the situation where I could have had guys who bought me lots of nice things, one guy was going to college to be a doctor and he bought me alot of things...but I just didn't feel a connection in that way with him so I didn't date him. And I really hate how you assume you know these things about me when you don't.

 

[Thelema]

A drunk whore is what a lot of guys want to be honest. She is probably exactly what he's looking for. You may want to believe different but its true. The easy girl will have a lot more friends and have a lot of people around but they're only around when times are good. When they crash down girls like that find themselves alone and sad when their friends have used them and left them. But are girls so different? If there was a guy willing to shower you in everything he could buy with his money wouldn't you rather be with him?

Sure you care. We all need love. We just can't have it yet because we're different.

Well I dont really care anymore, it's over and out of my control. And I hate him now anyway. I hope she cuts his dick off. :twisted:
And no I wouldn't want to be with someone who could buy me everything I wanted.....well ok that sounds good, but I would never leave somebody for that reason, just to be with somebody who would buy me what I wanted. If I didn't like the person for their personality(and yes, looks--call me shallow if you want) then it just wouldn't work for me. In fact I've been in the situation where I could have had guys who bought me lots of nice things, one guy was going to college to be a doctor and he bought me alot of things...but I just didn't feel a connection in that way with him so I didn't date him. And I really hate how you assume you know these things about me when you don't.

You soooo still feel something for him. I was just using money as an example. I think Hercules (or who ever you wish) came in to your life and did nothing but chase you and do what ever you wanted you wouldn't feel anything for him. Be honest...was that doctor guy being a door mat to you?

Wanting looks isn't shallow. It just means you aren't ashamed to admit it when other people are.

I just think that even tho we think we're strange kind of people deep down all guys and all girls are pretty much the same. We act in a predictable way because evolution has taught us that certain things are attractive and certain things aren't and we have no control over what they are.

 

[LittleMissScareAll]

You soooo still feel something for him. I was just using money as an example. I think Hercules (or who ever you wish) came in to your life and did nothing but chase you and do what ever you wanted you wouldn't feel anything for him. Be honest...was that doctor guy being a door mat to you?

Wanting looks isn't shallow. It just means you aren't ashamed to admit it when other people are.

I just think that even tho we think we're strange kind of people deep down all guys and all girls are pretty much the same. We act in a predictable way because evolution has taught us that certain things are attractive and certain things aren't and we have no control over what they are.

No, he wasnt a door mat. And yeah if I had feelings for the person and they done whatever I wanted then of course I would like them. The doctor guy I would have probably dated if not for him being a little too openly overly-obsessed with sex, and I felt like we didn't have too much in common.

 

[Thelema]

You soooo still feel something for him. I was just using money as an example. I think Hercules (or who ever you wish) came in to your life and did nothing but chase you and do what ever you wanted you wouldn't feel anything for him. Be honest...was that doctor guy being a door mat to you?

Wanting looks isn't shallow. It just means you aren't ashamed to admit it when other people are.

I just think that even tho we think we're strange kind of people deep down all guys and all girls are pretty much the same. We act in a predictable way because evolution has taught us that certain things are attractive and certain things aren't and we have no control over what they are.

No, he wasnt a door mat. And yeah if I had feelings for the person and they done whatever I wanted then of course I would like them. The doctor guy I would have probably dated if not for him being a little too openly overly-obsessed with sex, and I felt like we didn't have too much in common.

Hmmmmmm didn't you say somewhere that you and this guy that just broke up with you had nothing in common 8O

 

[LittleMissScareAll]

Hmmmmmm didn't you say somewhere that you and this guy that just broke up with you had nothing in common 8O

No, HE said we didn't, which was just an excuse for him to get rid of me...well I guess I didnt have much in common with the REAL him, but I never saw the real side of him...what I saw was a pretty sweet guy(aside from being a little lazy but since I loved him I looked past that) who liked the same movies, clothing style & music that I did...everything I saw of him was like me, except that he was outgoing and of course I'm not. And he was an outdoor person but I guess most guys are. And I hate the outdoors, I hate bugs, I hate camping, I hate 4-wheeling. But everything I liked about him made up for that and I done those things just to make him happy. Alot of good that did me... But he wasn't who I really thought he was. He was a lying, cheating drug addict who smokes & drinks when he told me he didn't do any of that stuff. He was just good at lying and good at faking who he was. Kinda sucks that we're no longer speaking, because he's such a great actor, he would have been perfect in my movie.

 

[Thelema]

Hmmmmmm didn't you say somewhere that you and this guy that just broke up with you had nothing in common 8O

No, HE said we didn't, which was just an excuse for him to get rid of me...well I guess I didnt have much in common with the REAL him, but I never saw the real side of him...what I saw was a pretty sweet guy(aside from being a little lazy but since I loved him I looked past that) who liked the same movies, clothing style & music that I did...everything I saw of him was like me, except that he was outgoing and of course I'm not. And he was an outdoor person but I guess most guys are. And I hate the outdoors, I hate bugs, I hate camping, I hate 4-wheeling. But everything I liked about him made up for that and I done those things just to make him happy. Alot of good that did me... But he wasn't who I really thought he was. He was a lying, cheating drug addict who smokes & drinks when he told me he didn't do any of that stuff. He was just good at lying and good at faking who he was. Kinda sucks that we're no longer speaking, because he's such a great actor, he would have been perfect in my movie.

Maybe you did see the real side of him somtimes and you just didn't want to believe it. I hate smoking/drinking/drugs too but I can't believe that you would never smell anything on his breath or find anything. Let me guess...the movie is about a girl who cuts off a man's penis?

 

[LittleMissScareAll]

Maybe you did see the real side of him somtimes and you just didn't want to believe it. I hate smoking/drinking/drugs too but I can't believe that you would never smell anything on his breath or find anything. Let me guess...the movie is about a girl who cuts off a man's penis?

Maybe that happens in the movie.
No I never smelled anything on his breath because he never done anything when he knew I was going to come and see him because he knew I would know he was lying, then.

 

[Thelema]

Maybe you did see the real side of him somtimes and you just didn't want to believe it. I hate smoking/drinking/drugs too but I can't believe that you would never smell anything on his breath or find anything. Let me guess...the movie is about a girl who cuts off a man's penis?

Maybe that happens in the movie.
No I never smelled anything on his breath because he never done anything when he knew I was going to come and see him because he knew I would know he was lying, then.

How would you write that in?
Well of course if he knows exactly when you're going to be around he could hide the space station from you. Being a little nosy isn't a bad thing. You should go through all his stuff and know where he is at all times. If he doesn't like it then he's probably hiding something. Then be sure to show up at odd times just to keep him on his toes.