Women have it easy.

[LittleMissScareAll]

How would you write that in?
Well of course if he knows exactly when you're going to be around he could hide the space station from you. Being a little nosy isn't a bad thing. You should go through all his stuff and know where he is at all times. If he doesn't like it then he's probably hiding something. Then be sure to show up at odd times just to keep him on his toes.

I could write it in...I've already thought about it.
Well I dont have to worry about it now since we've been split up for about 2 months now. But I wouldn't want anyone going through my stuff either, though I dont have anything to hide. But it would still make me uncomfortable to have someone looking through all my stuff. Though the showing up at odd times probably would be a good idea.

 

[Thelema]

How would you write that in?
Well of course if he knows exactly when you're going to be around he could hide the space station from you. Being a little nosy isn't a bad thing. You should go through all his stuff and know where he is at all times. If he doesn't like it then he's probably hiding something. Then be sure to show up at odd times just to keep him on his toes.

I could write it in...I've already thought about it.
Well I dont have to worry about it now since we've been split up for about 2 months now. But I wouldn't want anyone going through my stuff either, though I dont have anything to hide. But it would still make me uncomfortable to have someone looking through all my stuff. Though the showing up at odd times probably would be a good idea.

I'm sure you have :lol:
I just mean that he has to have something around like a lighter or something. You could go on his computer to find out what sites he's been going too...wait...bad idea...never go on a guys computer.

 

[LittleMissScareAll]

I'm sure you have :lol:
I just mean that he has to have something around like a lighter or something. You could go on his computer to find out what sites he's been going too...wait...bad idea...never go on a guys computer.

yeah, I actually saw alot of my ex's videos and stuff on his computer...he had alot of porn, which I assume most guys probably do.

 

[pinkputter]

oh a guy started this post???

why am i not suprised!

Lets say im a miserable person.... lets say I have blonde hair, i'm tall, and I have a cat.
If i am miserable and have all of these qualities, my belief system tells me anyone with the opposite set of qualities "has it easy"
SOO if you are a short brunnette, with a cat....man you have it made!

Do you see how this makes no sense and is just you trying to find an easy answer? Bottom line...we all have pain if you have SA, i don't think you can say some one of this gender or race suffers from SA more or less.

 

[Thelema]

I'm sure you have :lol:
I just mean that he has to have something around like a lighter or something. You could go on his computer to find out what sites he's been going too...wait...bad idea...never go on a guys computer.

yeah, I actually saw alot of my ex's videos and stuff on his computer...he had alot of porn, which I assume most guys probably do.

Yeah porn shouldn't worry you. All guys look at porn its just natural for us. You could look at the websites he's visited to try and get a look at what he's really interested in. You could also read his messages/emails without letting him know so he wouldn't delete them.

I wouldn't do this if you had no reason not to trust a guy but if your suspicious it would help you figure things out much quickly and save you from more possible heart ache down the line.

 

[LittleMissScareAll]

I'm sure you have :lol:
I just mean that he has to have something around like a lighter or something. You could go on his computer to find out what sites he's been going too...wait...bad idea...never go on a guys computer.

yeah, I actually saw alot of my ex's videos and stuff on his computer...he had alot of porn, which I assume most guys probably do.

Yeah porn shouldn't worry you. All guys look at porn its just natural for us. You could look at the websites he's visited to try and get a look at what he's really interested in. You could also read his messages/emails without letting him know so he wouldn't delete them.

I wouldn't do this if you had no reason not to trust a guy but if your suspicious it would help you figure things out much quickly and save you from more possible heart ache down the line.

Porn doesn't worry me, I look at it myself sometimes. The only way it would bother me is if I knew women he actually talked to or knew personally was sending him pics. 8O That would piss me off. But it wouldn't suprise me if my ex done that.
I did read my ex's myspace messagesa couple of times. If he was on and forgot to sign off and went to take a shower or something. I would get on there and look through his messages...but I never found anything to lead me to believe he was doing anything wrong. :? But I suspected something going on with him & the girl he dumped me for because he was leaving her alot more comments than he left me...so then I knew.

 

[Thelema]

I'm sure you have :lol:
I just mean that he has to have something around like a lighter or something. You could go on his computer to find out what sites he's been going too...wait...bad idea...never go on a guys computer.

yeah, I actually saw alot of my ex's videos and stuff on his computer...he had alot of porn, which I assume most guys probably do.

Yeah porn shouldn't worry you. All guys look at porn its just natural for us. You could look at the websites he's visited to try and get a look at what he's really interested in. You could also read his messages/emails without letting him know so he wouldn't delete them.

I wouldn't do this if you had no reason not to trust a guy but if your suspicious it would help you figure things out much quickly and save you from more possible heart ache down the line.

Porn doesn't worry me, I look at it myself sometimes. The only way it would bother me is if I knew women he actually talked to or knew personally was sending him pics. 8O That would piss me off. But it wouldn't suprise me if my ex done that.
I did read my ex's myspace messagesa couple of times. If he was on and forgot to sign off and went to take a shower or something. I would get on there and look through his messages...but I never found anything to lead me to believe he was doing anything wrong. :? But I suspected something going on with him & the girl he dumped me for because he was leaving her alot more comments than he left me...so then I knew.

No girl has ever sent me porn I did ask my friend for a naked picture of herself as a birthday present...she though it was hilarious....she knew I was just joking. I leave comments for girls but I don't mean anything by it. If I were you I would have left a comment or two calling her a slut or something :lol: then delete his account for backstabbing you.

 

[LittleMissScareAll]

No girl has ever sent me porn I did ask my friend for a naked picture of herself as a birthday present...she though it was hilarious....she knew I was just joking. I leave comments for girls but I don't mean anything by it. If I were you I would have left a comment or two calling her a slut or something :lol: then delete his account for backstabbing you.

I did do something to get back at him. :twisted: He was dumb enough to give me his yahoo password so I went on there and changed it so he could no longer sign on. And I told the girl she was a fat, ugly whore(which is true minus the fat part) under his name :lol: She dumped him after that. But then went back out with him and dumped him again a few days later. I tried to get back on his myspace but he had changed the password on there...otherwise I was going to post a bunch of stuff to make him look stupid in front of all his friends, including a pic of a tiny dick and say it was his(which wouldn't be a huge lie anyway). :twisted: :lol:

 

[Thelema]

No girl has ever sent me porn I did ask my friend for a naked picture of herself as a birthday present...she though it was hilarious....she knew I was just joking. I leave comments for girls but I don't mean anything by it. If I were you I would have left a comment or two calling her a slut or something :lol: then delete his account for backstabbing you.

I did do something to get back at him. :twisted: He was dumb enough to give me his yahoo password so I went on there and changed it so he could no longer sign on. And I told the girl she was a fat, ugly whore(which is true minus the fat part) under his name :lol: She dumped him after that. But then went back out with him and dumped him again a few days later. I tried to get back on his myspace but he had changed the password on there...otherwise I was going to post a bunch of stuff to make him look stupid in front of all his friends, including a pic of a tiny dick and say it was his(which wouldn't be a huge lie anyway). :twisted: :lol:

Thats the spirit! You could have also sent messages to his friends saying he finally has come to terms with his homo sexuality :lol:

 

[LittleMissScareAll]

Thats the spirit! You could have also sent messages to his friends saying he finally has come to terms with his homo sexuality :lol:

I thought about that too! :lol: I didn't want to do TOO much though cause I figured he'd do something back to me.

 

[Thelema]

Thats the spirit! You could have also sent messages to his friends saying he finally has come to terms with his homo sexuality :lol:

I thought about that too! :lol: I didn't want to do TOO much though cause I figured he'd do something back to me.

You mean he wouldn't like it if you said he was a male prostitute with dentures because all his teeth fell out due to his meth addiction? :lol: I think you were just too soft on him :wink:

 

[LittleMissScareAll]

You mean he wouldn't like it if you said he was a male prostitute with dentures because all his teeth fell out due to his meth addiction? :lol: I think you were just too soft on him :wink:

Haha, that wouldn't be far from the truth. Well I got on one of his accounts awhile ago. :wink: And I found some sick stuff.....he was on this adult personals site looking for people to have sex with. :roll: And he signed up for it before he broke up with me. I really do hope some girl cuts his dick off. I would laugh. :lol:

 

[Thelema]

You mean he wouldn't like it if you said he was a male prostitute with dentures because all his teeth fell out due to his meth addiction? :lol: I think you were just too soft on him :wink:

Haha, that wouldn't be far from the truth. Well I got on one of his accounts awhile ago. :wink: And I found some sick stuff.....he was on this adult personals site looking for people to have sex with. :roll: And he signed up for it before he broke up with me. I really do hope some girl cuts his dick off. I would laugh. :lol:

Thats a pretty horrible thing to do when you have a girlfriend...Where is the self control? Where is the loyalty these days?

 

[LittleMissScareAll]

Thats a pretty horrible thing to do when you have a girlfriend...Where is the self control? Where is the loyalty these days?

There is none. Geez, I wish I lived back in the 1600's or something when I assume men were maybe a little more loyal...or were they ever even back then? Oh well I still wish I'd lived back then, at least I would have my life over with and I'd be dead and gone now. :x

 

[Thelema]

Thats a pretty horrible thing to do when you have a girlfriend...Where is the self control? Where is the loyalty these days?

There is none. Geez, I wish I lived back in the 1600's or something when I assume men were maybe a little more loyal...or were they ever even back then? Oh well I still wish I'd lived back then, at least I would have my life over with and I'd be dead and gone now. :x

If there is none then how can there be those 90 year old couples that are as much in love now as they were when they were young?

 

[LittleMissScareAll]

If there is none then how can there be those 90 year old couples that are as much in love now as they were when they were young?

Because they're old and smart...most young people are idiots who only care about sex. At least that's what I understand from most dumb young people.

 

[J_]

Because they're old and smart...most young people are idiots who only care about sex. At least that's what I understand from most dumb young people.

Lol, reminds me of a survey in the papers a month or so ago, where one of the biggest regrets for the OAPs was not enough sex in their youth.

 

[Thelema]

If there is none then how can there be those 90 year old couples that are as much in love now as they were when they were young?

Because they're old and smart...most young people are idiots who only care about sex. At least that's what I understand from most dumb young people.

Loyalty doesn't have to do with being smart or dumb. Loyalty means being with someone no matter what until the end. It comes with real love. Anything else is a waste of our vital energy. I think all of our weak joys we indulge in just leave us with nothing in the end. Sex is only special when it is given to the deserving. People that have sex with anybody and everybody have given physical pleasure that lasts a few minutes above the spiritual connection two people can share. One of the most special things you can ever give someone is your virginity and I for one will save it until I find someone deserving of it and that appreciates what it means and not waste what I can only give once to one person. Gold isn't even that precious!

 

[SocialRetahd]

Ping Pong thread.

 

[LittleMissScareAll]

If there is none then how can there be those 90 year old couples that are as much in love now as they were when they were young?

Because they're old and smart...most young people are idiots who only care about sex. At least that's what I understand from most dumb young people.

Loyalty doesn't have to do with being smart or dumb. Loyalty means being with someone no matter what until the end. It comes with real love. Anything else is a waste of our vital energy. I think all of our weak joys we indulge in just leave us with nothing in the end. Sex is only special when it is given to the deserving. People that have sex with anybody and everybody have given physical pleasure that lasts a few minutes above the spiritual connection two people can share. One of the most special things you can ever give someone is your virginity and I for one will save it until I find someone deserving of it and that appreciates what it means and not waste what I can only give once to one person. Gold isn't even that precious!

I agree about the virginity, but why is it that some people take it so lightly? Some people can have sex with just anyone and not care...even lose their virginity and not care who they lose it to... though now I am seriously considering just giving mine to a rock star or something...at least it'd be somebody I really like, but they can't really hurt me because I know I have no chance of having an actual relationship with them anyway.
But why do I feel like if I had had sex with these people they wouldn't have left me? I think for most people, they can only be "in love" with somebody who has sex with them every second of the day. Though I don't know about loyalty...most people are such worthless pieces of crap that even if you gave them all the sex they could possibly want, they'd probably still find somebody(or multiple people) to cheat on you with.... I wish I could take all the lying, cheating people in the world...and push them off a cliff. We'd all be so much better off without worthless pieces of shit like them.