NothingElseMatters
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Why most guys disgust me! (PS I’m a guy)
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SnowWolf
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I may have just joined but I have to ask - why are you here then? I know with SA I personally have no one I can talk to about my feelings and my head just overloads with thoughts sometimes that I just need to get it out... somehow. A forum like this is one of the few mediums that people feel safe enough to do that. Go away if you hate what these people have to say. And I very much doubt anyone here thinks they are perfect.
Blue Teardrops
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Blue Teardrops
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Um, if all of us here thought we were 'perfect,' then we wouldn't be here in the first place. I doubt very seriously people think they can change the world by starting a thread here. They're just disillusioned by it and are trying to express their frustrations. If you don't agree with someone else's opinion, then either reply using some respect or just ignore their thread.
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madmike
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The sad thing is that EVERYBODY i know (with maybe the exception of one of my closest friends) acts like this. The wolf whistling and shouting out how you think 'she's got nice ARSE' just seems crass and perverted (i don't see how it should draw respect to you from anyone, or how it's so manly!) and the constant competition between mates to act ever more manly is just tiring i.e 'I eat 3 rump steaks for breakfast!' ... well done you!
And what is it with McCoys or Yorkies... MANFOOD! I'd like to meet the maker one day and just best his brains out (how anyone's managed to establish themselves on sexism these days... it's just wrong!)
And what is it with McCoys or Yorkies... MANFOOD! I'd like to meet the maker one day and just best his brains out (how anyone's managed to establish themselves on sexism these days... it's just wrong!)
Satine
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Thank you, J, couldn't agree more.
Thing is, that very behaviour from the men who think shouting lewd stuff is clever make themselves pretty repugnant to many of us women just by doing so. I couldn't tell you whether any women lower their standards when they see this (if so many men are doing it, what's the point in expecting more? kind of mentality), but many of us also just roll our eyes, turn away and look for a good man instead.
We might have a long search on our hands, though. But some of us just find that behaviour plain nasty and don't want anything to do with it.
But there's little point in ranting endlessly about it - just be a gentleman and be proud of it, if that's what makes you happy as an individual. My partner is a keen photographer and went through a stage of snapping flowers; he once accepted a peck on the cheek from a gay man in a club who we'd got chatting to without flinching; he likes head massages. He's quite feminine in many ways, and I think that makes him absolutely rock!
no1
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well. a lot of women wouldn't know that their so called "nice guy" might actually be different on the inside, and isn't really a "nice guy" and acts like one of those same douche bags when they are out with their guy friends, or away from their girl. The girls probably being attracted to their displayed 'authoritative' confidence which may have been confused with cockiness and arrogance and simply a display to woo the women. At the same time belittling other men.
For a certain number of women anyways.. not all. I guess, those who look for the more aggressive cocky attitude.
For a certain number of women anyways.. not all. I guess, those who look for the more aggressive cocky attitude.
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madmike
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I think it's perfectly fine to discuss these things. You don't have to be a 'gentleman' to understand and uphold basic values like respect! I don't think anyone here is advocating hate, just pointing out behaviour that they don't agree with and don't want to be associated with... It helps you define yourself as a person even if it doens't get the message across to the culprits.
I think it's perfectly fine to discuss these things. You don't have to be a 'gentleman' to understand and uphold basic values like respect! I don't think anyone here is advocating hate, just pointing out behaviour that they don't agree with and don't want to be associated with... It helps you define yourself as a person even if it doens't get the message across to the culprits.
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BlauweEngel
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Blue Teardrops, SnowWolf, NothingElseMatters
Guys, try calming down a bit. Last thing we want is another flame war right?
As for the original poster, it won't hurt if people stopped with the show-offy attitudes and the random inappropriate remarks, but not all men are doing it, which is why I guess the inclusiveness of your post offends some people.
Guys, try calming down a bit. Last thing we want is another flame war right?
As for the original poster, it won't hurt if people stopped with the show-offy attitudes and the random inappropriate remarks, but not all men are doing it, which is why I guess the inclusiveness of your post offends some people.
NothingElseMatters
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Yeah you are right.Each one has different beliefs and he can do whatever he wants with them.Peace
I don't really notice this typical 'manly' behavior to be honest. I don't like sports much, I don't holler at women, and I like bacardi/coke, but I don't think that makes me queer or anything. I've certainly never had anyone accuse me of it, and I've never been stared down or whatever. I just do my own thing.
niceangry you and no1 should be best friends if you not are already every day seems someone gonna raise same topic how women like assholes,and theres you who never had any luck in relationships,who gonna claim how good they would be with women ant sensitive they are.Its you people who have problems with other males or females,and if you want to debate how all the world is acting maybe start sorting problems in your head first.peace
every day seems someone gonna raise same topic how women like assholes,and theres you who never had any luck in relationships,who gonna claim how good they would be with women ant sensitive they are.Its you people who have problems with other males or females,and if you want to debate how all the world is acting maybe start sorting problems in your head first.peace alright everyone just needs to back off okay... just take some deep breathes. I just wanted to hear from other people that feel the same way as I do... and to NothingElseMatters I never said I hate all men or thought that I was perfect, get your facts straight. And to doesit, I never said I would be good with women! and I have had a gf in the past but I ended it with her... and along with her there has been a few other girls who have wantd to date me but SAD has ruined dat so yea...... srry for upsetting u few people... I'm just here to discuss things with people and I believe I can post all the hate threads I want even though I posted 3 other threads that aren't
pufferfish
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any woman worth having don't want men like this. the type of girl who goes for those pigs, is probably not the type of girl you want in your life anyway.
Danfalc
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. I'm just here to discuss things with people and I believe I can post all the hate threads I want even though I posted 3 other threads that aren't
Not really read the rules,open discussion is cool which I believe your intentions were just that with this one,just often things can get out of hand on sensitive issues.