It's summer again, I'm stuck at home pretty much doing nothing, all my friends are doing ****, and my mom is pretty overprotective which is probably enhanced due to a bunch of things (recent divorce, lack of money right now...idk), so she's all like "Not the right time right now". So due to being stuck at home all day (besides a stupid summer camp I go to which my mom forced me to do...it really blows and everyone there I think is weird) I have no one to talk to in person, which does open up social circles including meeting girls and such. Is this normal for people my age with no lives? Because in the summer people my age do a bunch of ****, go down to the shore, whatever. I'm also trying to buckle down on future plans but woopee, this **** I described is getting in the way with that a lil bit. So yeah! Thoughts and analysis is appreciated.
Why in the summer do I think about girls? (and other stuff)
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Death Rider
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Don't blame the girls 
As with all creatures of nature - man is subject to the same laws of reproduction. Have you ever seen two pigeons mating in winter? (we have snow) How about in summer?
It's a good observation my Mickery. I believe he is right. In my case he is ;D I want communication and I want to satisfy my urges. Whad do we get? Sex ;D For some reason it is targeted at anything that has a bust and moves, even though I have a gf (which I haven't seen in 2 weeks), so yeah... Mickery is right - you are thinking about the thing you want but don't have
Eh... Isn't nature wonderful?
As with all creatures of nature - man is subject to the same laws of reproduction. Have you ever seen two pigeons mating in winter? (we have snow) How about in summer?It's a good observation my Mickery. I believe he is right. In my case he is ;D I want communication and I want to satisfy my urges. Whad do we get? Sex ;D For some reason it is targeted at anything that has a bust and moves, even though I have a gf (which I haven't seen in 2 weeks), so yeah... Mickery is right - you are thinking about the thing you want but don't have
Eh... Isn't nature wonderful?
GaryUranga
Banned
Usually we think a lot when we have nothing else to do, keep yourself active, keeps you outside your head
True, true.
HeadFace
Well-known member
That vaguely sounds like my summer so far. All of my "FRIENDS" have been out having fun WITHOUT me. I feel like a bother every time I try to talk to them now, and they're starting to bother me as well.
Back to you though. It seems like your summer seems a bit empty... Pick up a hobby. What do you enjoy doing? Try not to spend your days doing "nothing".
Heck, even random doodles, reading, or learning random things is more than nothing.
A job, if your old enough?
I'm sure you can make a list of things.
By the way if it seems like your friends are just isolating you/leaving you out of the group... Try to get back in. If they reject you then.. Well, we're here for you
By the way everyone finds someone. Even us with SA. I mean. If me out of all people already got my first kiss, then I actually believe anyone can.
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About the jobs: no working papers and the only jobs not requiring them are casher jobs, and that's something that would be a nightmare for me on the wrong day cause I won't be able to process it that well. By thw way, my SA has improved significantly over the past year, I just came here to see what other people with it say about certain things since my confidence is still pretty low, and I have more of "mental retardation" issues more than anything else, at least I think.
JonnyD
Well-known member
well since your're and adolescent its impressive that you managed to not think of girls all the time in winter, fall and spring... if i lived near the shore in my teensi would be there everyday just to look at the bikinis....
(sorry girls, it's the blunt truth, all heterosexual man are like that...)
(sorry girls, it's the blunt truth, all heterosexual man are like that...)
JonnyD
Well-known member
we tend to suffer so much beforehand, i mean right now you don't have a job, it doesnt make much of a difference if you don't have it, i say get the job if the job is a nightmare... just quit it
Key word: MORESO. As in moreso do I think about them in the summer. Yeah I still think about them in the other seasons but for some reason I gots other stuffs on muh mind.
HeadFace
Well-known member
Haha..
NO.
HeadFace
Well-known member
Have you had a job before?
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userremoved
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You've got more free time, they're wearing less cloths.
Nope.
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