FriendlyShadow
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Yeah, I don't think relationships are a cure either. In fact, relationships are not my top priority in life. However, I understand that relationships are very important to people. (Although I do get annoyed by those who talk incessantly about dating and sex.) And yes some people think that relationships will lead to a happier life. They think this for all sorts of reasons. And like you mentioned, movies (and media in general) is one reason because it sells "romance" as the cure to life's problems. I'm not going to knock people for striving for relationships. That would be like me going to a fat person and saying "stop depending on food" or an alcoholic and saying "beer isn't the answer." They wouldn't like me saying that much :idontknow:
I understand a lot what you're saying. I agree, that relationships aren't supposed to be a top priority thing and and cure for your problems. Though I think people treat relationships in society as it being the most significant thing in solving their depression. I think because romantic movies/shows got them hooked on to that lovey-dovey kind of relationship where couples are perfectly happy and nothing actually in their lives bad ever happens to them. It's all the same: girl/boy are trying to find their perfect prince charming/princess and they end up being happily in love and getting married at the end. That's not a very healthy realistic expectation. Hollywood just sets up false, Utopian stereotypes while hiding back the real truth nobody wants to hear/see about. And some girls/guys who watch those movies/shows get brainwashed because that unhealthy Utopian expectation will happen to them in their lives. Yeah, I see what you're saying about people who constantly talk and think sex and dating is important in your life as well. I feel sorry for those who do want that the most in their lives because they haven't found other ways to keep themselves happy or occupied in their daily lives. But yeah, I mean I wouldn't walk up to a person and actually say it to their face why they think shouldn't depend on relationships to help them be happy. But I wish that people would stop thinking that it's supposed to actually make them happy to depend on having a relationship.