I got asked out today and I was not interested and yet I ended up giving my number away and having a date tomorrow
and this was all because of my bad communication skills. I completely lost control just like I do whenever I am in a social situation, I panicked at the fact that some stranger was right in my face and was talking to me and had no idea what I was doing and I was more focussed on the fact that I getting all shaky and really didn't want to be in that situation.
I was in town with my friend and we walk pass this guy on the phone and he stops us, at first I just thought he wanted directions or whatever but then he was like we should meet up sometime, it was a total surprise as no one ever does this to me... ever. Whenever I am in any situation where I have to talk to a stranger I start being all giggly and smiley, and I guess he took it as if I was interested :'( at first I was like no but then since I was being all giggly just made it seem like I wanted to and I really didn't and I have no idea what happened but I have a date tomorrow :/ I really do not want to go, I want to call him and say I change my mind but I can never call anyone I get so embarrassed and nervous and no way am I doing it and no way am I turning up. What should I do? If I don't turn up I will feel like such bitch and if I do I will not talk, I will be silent the whole time. I can not speak to pretty much anyone so I stay silent and it will be hell for me and for him. Please help me should I just not show up and never take his calls? But I will feel so rude and I am a really nice person and don't like doing this sort of thing. I am not ready for a relationship or dating or whatever I like being single and not having to impress anyone or having that sort of pressure.
I like it better when no one notices me :/
Oopsie
this got long lol, if you actually read all this then thank you
any advise will help I am having a nervous break down right now
I was in town with my friend and we walk pass this guy on the phone and he stops us, at first I just thought he wanted directions or whatever but then he was like we should meet up sometime, it was a total surprise as no one ever does this to me... ever. Whenever I am in any situation where I have to talk to a stranger I start being all giggly and smiley, and I guess he took it as if I was interested :'( at first I was like no but then since I was being all giggly just made it seem like I wanted to and I really didn't and I have no idea what happened but I have a date tomorrow :/ I really do not want to go, I want to call him and say I change my mind but I can never call anyone I get so embarrassed and nervous and no way am I doing it and no way am I turning up. What should I do? If I don't turn up I will feel like such bitch and if I do I will not talk, I will be silent the whole time. I can not speak to pretty much anyone so I stay silent and it will be hell for me and for him. Please help me should I just not show up and never take his calls? But I will feel so rude and I am a really nice person and don't like doing this sort of thing. I am not ready for a relationship or dating or whatever I like being single and not having to impress anyone or having that sort of pressure.
I like it better when no one notices me :/
Oopsie