DeadHead
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So my boyfriend is trying to teach me to play the piano and write my own songs. All he wanted me to do was to try and make something random up, just experimient. I don't yet know how to play and felt really uncomfortable trying to make something up because I know it would sound awful.
As always, when put on the spot I freeze and my mind goes completely blank. I tried to explain to him that I just couldn't do it. He kept trying to make me and got frustrated and called me annoying and said I was a baby and needed to grow up. Which almost brought me to tears.
Later on I apologized and said that next time I would try really hard to do
what he wanted.
So today, same thing happens. I just couldn't phsyically press the keys. My hands were shaking. I know it's just so stupid for me to get so terrified. He's my boyfriend, he loves me. He's not going to judge me if I suck. He just wants to teach me. I asked him later if he still liked me and he repsonded with "I guess so" at which point I start balling my eyes out.
He held me and told me it was alright and that he loved me. He said he just really hopes I wont be like this all the time because how else are we supposed to do anything together.
I'm so afraid I'm going to lose him. Why can't I do a simple little thing like press some piano keys. I can't eat, cook, or clean amongst other things in front of anyone either. ARGGG. I HATE MYSELF. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO ::
As always, when put on the spot I freeze and my mind goes completely blank. I tried to explain to him that I just couldn't do it. He kept trying to make me and got frustrated and called me annoying and said I was a baby and needed to grow up. Which almost brought me to tears.
Later on I apologized and said that next time I would try really hard to do
what he wanted.
So today, same thing happens. I just couldn't phsyically press the keys. My hands were shaking. I know it's just so stupid for me to get so terrified. He's my boyfriend, he loves me. He's not going to judge me if I suck. He just wants to teach me. I asked him later if he still liked me and he repsonded with "I guess so" at which point I start balling my eyes out.
He held me and told me it was alright and that he loved me. He said he just really hopes I wont be like this all the time because how else are we supposed to do anything together.
I'm so afraid I'm going to lose him. Why can't I do a simple little thing like press some piano keys. I can't eat, cook, or clean amongst other things in front of anyone either. ARGGG. I HATE MYSELF. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO ::