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is there a time when its generally acceptable to ask for a number wihtout creeping ppl out or scaring them?
idk if any of u read my previous thread of the 'bus' girl but heres the summary
i sit by a very attractive girl on the bus and theres sorta tension between us (or i think) but i dont got balls to talk to her
2days later empty seat by her, i wanted to sit by her but my body decided to sit somewhere else. ruined my day
well today as i got on the bus, i sat by some empty seat, all i knew was beside it sat a girl. Low and behold it was the same girl but she had glasses on. (keep in mind i legally need glasses but i only wear them in class/driving so i cant recognize faces well wihtout them) well after 15minutes of uncomfortable glancing and avoiding each other's eyes, i FINALLY manned up and asked her where she got her glasses from. Turns out we are both from the same country (Hong Kong). However the convo ended shortly and we were back to awkward silence ( i really hoped she would help continue the convo) Before getin off the bus, i looked at her, smiled and say bye, she did the same. i feel this is a big step for me but i realize this is the last week of school b4 finals so if i do see her again these next few days, it will probably be the last time b4 summer.
So how do i casually ask for her number? at least now i can sit by her and maybe talk again but idk how to transition to that frendly mode in order to establish comfort.
i was thinking "oh this is the last week of school, ill probably never see u again on the bus" but that seems kinda creepy/2 early to say? i dont even know her at all
idk if any of u read my previous thread of the 'bus' girl but heres the summary
i sit by a very attractive girl on the bus and theres sorta tension between us (or i think) but i dont got balls to talk to her
2days later empty seat by her, i wanted to sit by her but my body decided to sit somewhere else. ruined my day
well today as i got on the bus, i sat by some empty seat, all i knew was beside it sat a girl. Low and behold it was the same girl but she had glasses on. (keep in mind i legally need glasses but i only wear them in class/driving so i cant recognize faces well wihtout them) well after 15minutes of uncomfortable glancing and avoiding each other's eyes, i FINALLY manned up and asked her where she got her glasses from. Turns out we are both from the same country (Hong Kong). However the convo ended shortly and we were back to awkward silence ( i really hoped she would help continue the convo) Before getin off the bus, i looked at her, smiled and say bye, she did the same. i feel this is a big step for me but i realize this is the last week of school b4 finals so if i do see her again these next few days, it will probably be the last time b4 summer.
So how do i casually ask for her number? at least now i can sit by her and maybe talk again but idk how to transition to that frendly mode in order to establish comfort.
i was thinking "oh this is the last week of school, ill probably never see u again on the bus" but that seems kinda creepy/2 early to say? i dont even know her at all