What sex do you find worse?

[scatmantom]

I just have no ICE breakers. If I have to get to know a girl thru work then its still horrible but because I sort of have to I make more of an effort. ( i know that probably sounds crazy) In a bar/club i am hopeless...i just dont hav the confidance to approach an attractive girl. No matter how drunk I get Im still anxious...just need to meet som1 special via the work place :roll:

 

[PunkyMonkey]

Boys for me.... when they're good looking, and I like them, I can't handle myelf.
The easiest people for me to talk to are the not so good looking boys my age. Loud boys who keep talking and talking and talking are the easiest to get along with. I just never worry about myself around them.
My closest frieds are all girls. I am OK around most girls. I only get really anxious around the really loud outspoken girls who are well liked by everyone. Eek.

 

[Danfalc]

Missionary gets boring after a while... lol yeah bad joke.As a couple of guys have also said,due to circumstances i was braught up by my mum rather than my dad.

Which has an effect on me in the way that im probaly more sensative sentimental and other things than the typical macho wannabe guy so i think that helps me relate a bit more to gals than guys.

And In my personal experience girls tend to be more sympathetic and understanding about stuff. where alot of guys will take the piss and make a joke out of things.Also to be honest 90% of the guys i meet my age all go on about the same crap like how many people they have battered or how hard they are and how many girls they have slept with :roll: so yeah yawn.

 

[jayo]

Defintely harder to communicate with women my own age!

Older women and men I tend to be fine with.

I think it's to do with latent sexual feelings towards them which I am trying to combat.

 

[behindcloseddoors]

ermm....unless its a "formal" chat I'd definately have to say both sex's I'm much better at talking to myself than real people, they are just to scary.

 

[steve1]

i can talk to men or ladies but if men start talking about sex and how many girls "they pulled the weekend" (probably all lies) then i get real uncomfortable because part of s.a is i feel ugly and i feel if i tried to join in ths conversation people would just laugh at me.(which has happened to me plenty of times growing up as a teenager)which obviously batters your confidense...so i tend to clam up and get imbarassed.
Vicious circle Lot of loud blokes are mainly wankers anyway lol

 

[maggie]

women scare me 8O

i feel more uncomfortable around women also..they seem more judgemental

 

[sensitive]

I hate women because of porn
and i hate men for watching it

Does that mean you hate me?

 

[sensitive]

You didn't answer to my question!

 

[crazyfairyx]

I was having a bad day when i wrote those other posts :lol:

Glad you're having a better day today

 

[xkiss_me_nowx]

Im completely fine with guys.. and dont have a problem with it, but with only [prettty] girls i get uncomfortable. I always feel so ugly next to a pretty girl, and always compare myself to them.. and i start feeling intimidated & get all nervous and go red. dead annoying.

but weird thing is that i goto an all girls school.. well did, its just recently changed into mixed now. :roll:

but im completely fine with most guys.. unless there realllyy hot. or reallly loud.

 

[Remus]

most of my freinds are women as I find alot of men intimidating

I'm trying to make more male freinds though

 

[Waybuloo]

I find both intimidating. For women it's mostly that i think they pay more attention and can pick up on things, and more judgemental, and some can be more bitchy and competitive. With men u know it's the opposite sex kind of thing. I jsut dont feel comfortable with them, especially if they are good looking, not that it means i am attracted, it just is a natural reaction, like i am not good enough. So basically i think it all comes down to not feeling good enough, for them to even look at .

 

[Plurby]

People who draw attention to it are plain evil I mean what is the point in saying "god your quiet arent you?"....I KNOW YOU IDIOT NOW LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE!!!

Sorry just read through this post, and I know exactly what you mean. I was trying to be friends with a woman who's daughter went to the same playschool as mine, we walked there together and had a cuppa after we had dropped them off. I used to work with her before I had my daughter and at that time my SP/SA wasn't as bad. WE were sitting having a coffee, me trying to be "normal", lol, when she says - "You're a bit of a loner aren't you?" That I found really hard because I didn't WANT to be a loner or thought of as being one, I just couldn't help myself. I'm sure a lot of you guys not what I mean.

 

[of_darkness]

for me it would have to be men...girls arent so bad, its just literally every time i meet one when i'm with a friend, the conversation seems to start something like "he never talks" immediately :? how is that fair? once it was just "so who's the one who never talks?"...

its so depressing when everyone beats you to it, and you cant even introduce yourself and get a head start by actually talking first...it's men who i cant stand, women can be fine if idiots haven't been talking to them about my silence behind my back....

i think generally i'm a bit more confident around girls, i get a boost because i know it will be a tricky situation especially with guys there as well, and i try extra hard to look/act normal.

but still, HUMANS SUCK!! I HATE THEM ALL!! apart from us, of course...we probably aren't humans, right?... :? hrm

 

[coriander1992]

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I find it hard to speak to both, girls/women because i allways compare myself to them, and think "oh, they are much prettier than me, i am not worthy of talking to them" and stuff like that.
boys/men because i just don't know what to say to them and find it really arkward to have conversations with them.

 

[cutekoala]

I know what you guys mean about people subtly pointing stuff out about ur problem... there's this girl in my English class who i think has worked out that i have a 'social' problem... and whenever the discussion in class shifts to socialising or something, she always makes comments which I feel are aimed at me, like, 'Oh I feel sorry for people who can't socilise and don't say anything even when they want to' and 'well I'd rather be less intelligent and balanced than be intelligent and have no social skills' (I'm the best student in the class of 4 ) I always tell myself she's not doing it on purpose...but her comments seem far too pointed for it to be accidental

 

[Spearmint]

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