On the topic of free will, here's how I see it.
God created us out of love so that he could love us and we could love him and so he could shower us with gifts and love and give us an eternity in heaven with him. But in order for a loving relationship God had to give us free will, so that we could choose to love him. [i.e. creating a robot to love wouldn't be much fun...it's when a person chooses to love you...thats what loves about]. But giving us free will allows for the possibility that some people may choose not to love God, but instead to do their own thing. Because loving God means you have to give up all those sins that make you feel good, and all your selfishness and pride and independence and control, and many people don't want to do this...[me included!!!]...it's hard...but we all have to choose between the light and the darkness...if we love the darkness then we are free to choose the darkness and there we shall remain forever, and if we love the light then we are free to choose the light and there we will remain forever. [just a thought, but who's to say that someone who loves the darkness and chooses the darkness won't be happy in the darkness forever?!...I haven't thought this thru yet...just a thought!]
But God is also a just God. He knows the hearts of all men. He knows exactly what everyone is thinking and feeling, and he knows exactly how to convey to you, in terms that you understand, this choice that you have to make...but he doesn't force anything because that's not a characteristic of love...i.e. forcing someone to love you isn't real love...but I believe somehow, in someway God will give everybody a fair trial.
also, another point to note is that God exists outside of time, so I don't know how he see's the world, but even though he can see into the future, I don't believe that means we don't have free will...and so, when he creates a person...in a way, god doesn't know what choices that person will make...he hopes the person will choose to love him, but the person might reject god...of course in the dimension of time God does know whats going to happen...but I think it's a hard one to explain...i.e. have you ever existed outside of time?...me neither!...I hope you can see what I'm getting at!]
so, I don't see god as a tyrant with a gun to my head, I'm thankful he brought me into the world so that he could lavish me with love, and I can love him in return.
to clavain,
I think its belief in the bible that causes discussion...cause if a person believes that the bible is true, then everything it teaches about god must be true. So the question is, why would someone believe in the bible?
well, I guess, for me, just like with anything in life, its a build up of many experiences...i.e. thats how reason works right? we consider things and think if this is true then this must be true, etc and we build our beliefs. here's some examples...if you walked into a building where all your unreligious friends were rolling around on the floor, some crying their eyes out, others laughing ecstatically, totally out of character, while most of everyone else is doing the same...and up the front people seem to be getting healed from diseases, and prophecy's are being blurted out [one of my mates went up the front when the preacher correctly guessed a problem with his toe that he hadn't told anyone...and days later when I spoke to him it had been healed]...and while all this is going on, you are feeling feelings you've never felt before, intense passion, and everybody's talking about this holy spirit chap. How would you react? Personally, this was one of my first religious experiences, and I'm a skeptical person, so I forced myself not to cry and controlled myself, and desperatly looked for rational explanations. Was it all a big act, that everyone but me was in on...well, I don't buy that. But what about, maybe, if there's some psychological explanation for it, like hypnosis or something...maybe a scientific explanation that I don't know the answer to just yet, but at least I can sleep better tonight...well maybe, or what about the explanation that it was God, sending his holy spirit upon the building?...I chose science at this point.
but it doesn't stop there...cause you continue to experience things that the bible explains very clearly, but science offers no explanation...like, what if you're getting deeper and deeper into the bible then one day, suddenly you walk into a field and the beauty of the tree's makes you, totally uncharacteristically, cry...and suddenly whenever you watch films, you can't help but blub like a baby, when you never ever used to cry at films...and you get desires to go run marathons, when back in school cross country was the thing you hated the most...and you keep getting this feeling in your chest everytime you think of God, this intense passion that actually makes it a little hard to breathe. Add to this all the other experiences I've had in my life, that I can't list at the moment...and well, could there be some scientific explanation for all this...yes, it's possible...or could it be that the bible was bang on, when it says that when you believe, God will send his holy spirit into your heart and you'll be born again? Could it be that the bible was bang on when it teaches that there's a spiritual realm to the universe that can't be seen, that you have to feel, and trust. So, I guess, the reason I believe is because the bible makes more sense to me than science. When I weigh all my life experiences up, all the piece's of the puzzle fit the bible much more logically for me.