I just watched that entire documentary, though I probably shouldn't have because that kind of thing feeds my paranoia. Throughout it, I highly considered never going back to school. That will pass though. At any rate, what he did was very demented and cowardly. What initiative? He wasn't taking a stand against anything, he was targeting random kids from his school. His videotapes and writings were highly melodramatic and egotistical. When we have SA I realize that any incidents feel very amplified. I understand that you said you would never do such things. But there's a huge difference between him and other people who are anti-social. He obviously had an infatuation with the columbine shootings and highly admired the people who carried that out. This kind of thinking, to me, shows low insight and low intellect. Not to mention zero compassion. It was said in the documentary that he was shy and insecure in combination with being arrogant which is very dangerous. He had this inflated representation of himself in his mind but because of his SA he could never rightfully portray that. So he had all those fantasy and fantasy characters which eventually led to the idiotic, selfish thing he did. He separated himself from everyone else in such a way that everyone else was completely against him. And the thing is, any one of us with SA to whichever extent too could have been sitting in one of those classrooms and he wouldn't have cared to know that we related to him in even the tiniest way at some point. I felt sorry for him in bits in the beginning of the documentary, but I think he did quite enough of that for himself.
I don't think his personality ultimately relates to the majority of us here. There's many details of his case which made him such a person that did the things he did which aren't even present in me and many of us. I honestly don't think I have an ounce of violence in me. He had a huge ego - compared himself to freaking Moses and Jesus. If anything, I think the point of this is to further seek help for any problems and maintain a level of compassion for others even if some of us may feel excluded.
he simply gave up.
he didn't remain idle
and he didn't try to find solutions.
those are the 3 choices we have.
this thread is dedicated to that fork in the road.
you missed the point..... the thread is not about him. He only gave me the idea.
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