What do you think of Nervous/awkward girls?

[fedupoffear88]

Skatergirl
You r very cute, u shud be proud and confident of yourself. I wud ask u out if u lived in mah city

 

[Flowers-Of-Bloom]

I'm very nervous and awkward. Physically awkward too.
A lot of the time I just come off as a loser/cluts, because I'm so clumsy...

But my friends accept me, so it's fine.

 

[AlleyCat]

I am one. :: hehe

 

[Skatergirl]

Their fine, I like them. It's better than being a nervous/awkward guy (me). I noticed all the girls who are shy or have SA generally still have boyfriends, where a guy with SA can't get a girlfriend to save his life.

Why do you think that you can't find a girlfriend? shy guys can too!
You don't have to be the cool guy,
If you know what i mean
Boys think they have to be strong, and show that they are a real man.
but you know, i think boys who are shy ( boys who show their feelings )
Are great, because did you know, that most girls,
Really like that kind of guy who's really sensetive and sweet to a girl ?
Please don't think you can't find a girl, i thought so too about relationships, but it's just hard when you have S.A to find someone, because it's hard to make social contacts! It's not because you are shy!
Or you just found the wrong girls! Who want a bad guy if you know what i mean.

 

[Skatergirl]

Skatergirl
You r very cute, u shud be proud and confident of yourself. I wud ask u out if u lived in mah city

awww thank you so !!

 

[Imhotep]

hey there.
I'm a very awkward girl, and i act very nervous when people are around me.
And in love, i'm soo clumsy ::
I really hate it , but I can't stop it anyway
What do you think of it?
Is it ... acceptable ? xD

Of course it is!

 

[Forgetmenot_ak]

When I'm shy and consequently awkward guys typically think that my being shy, nervous and awkward is "cute". The guys I've dated were always warned by me about my SA, and they didn't seem to mind at all in a negative way. You know how those loud, dramatic girls are SOOO annoying?... I think quiet people give off the "I'm not all about drama" vibe (and it's typically true)

I have really high standards when it comes to what I consider love, and everyone is different about that... but I've truly been in love once, with my ex-fiance, and at that point I was completely "me". He made me feel comfortable, and around him I think my SA actually went away completely (well when it was just the two of us at least). I could tell him anything... he was my best friend that I'd ever had (crap, now I'm getting sad... ) When I was with him and others, I was socially anxious, but he understood and knew how to make me feel more comfortable. Once when we went bowling with his friends I started getting really bad anxiety and even though he paid for the full length of bowling, he told his friends that HE wasn't feeling well and he took me home where we just relaxed in comfort and he just made me feel much better. He knew that telling his friends what was really going on would just make me more anxious, so he said he wasn't feeling well. Though I was with him for years and he did many amazing things along those lines, that memory always stands out - I guess because it's just how he casually cared about me and took the time to understand.

Sorry, I tend to ramble about him. He still breaks my heart. You'd think by now it would just be shattered and unable to crack any more than it already has... but it was love, and love makes you crazy. I was ready to spend my life with him.. Uh, until he beat me..

If you're truly in love, she'll understand or she'll at least try her hardest and do what she can to make you more comfortable. If the girl in your avatar photo is you, well, I'd go lesbian for you (kidding, but you're gorgeous!), you seem quite sweet, and I absolutely doubt that your girlfriend is bothered by your anxiety. She wouldn't be with you (and she definitely wouldn't love you) if she was really upset about how you act because of your SA. I imagine that she thinks it's cute, and she likely understands.

 

[J_M]

I like shy girls, I guess because shy generally equals nice.

 

[talisman]

I prefer shy girls as well. That's not to say I'll get on with just any shy girl - they need to have a sense of humour, a friendly disposition and a similar personality, but I do prefer being with people who understand what shyness is like.

 

[iamthenra]

If you were my girl, it would not matter to me one bit if you were nervous or awkward or even clumsy. You could tear my house down, and it wouldn't matter too much to me, because a house can be rebuilt and material objects can be purchased, but a partner is something to cherish and embrace and forgive etc... So for me, it would not matter one bit. In fact I think that it would be a cute trait to have.

 

[Cloudtheclow]

I like shy girls, partly since I am a shy guy. Unfortunaltly shy girls and shy guys rarely get together I think, with them both being shy. Need their not shy friends to force them out on a date together or something.

 

[Mikefly]

I love nervous , awkward girls exactly what i look for because that's the way i am myself.

 

[HoldenCaulfield]

I hate really loudmouthed people who pretend that everything is just great and they're having so much fun. Phoney.

Real people have feelings. And aren't always up for fun and being loud. It just seems that nobody is into that kind of girl today.

Despite my name, I am a girl. I'll throw a picture up there soon. I was just let in by the moderators/whomever lets people in and haven't had time to change it.

Oh, and hi.

 

[Darker Than Black]

Cute ...........................awwwww

 

[VioletTears]

Shy girls + shy guys = perfect match!

I agree with this. I'm a girl (obviously) and I have been in a relationship for a long time, so this thread probably isn't meant for me, BUT I know that I feel extremely stressed out around loud people in general, including loud men. Some of them scare the crap out of me. I would imagine that most quiet men, at least men with SA, would feel the same way about loud women. It's all about the match. Most of us want someone who we can relate to.

 

[mrb]

depends who your talking to i soppose some blokes like confident girls , some girls like confident guys , me i take people as i find them , but if i had a choise ill go for the shy gal , cos on the whole they seem much nicer , so dont trouble yourself about being shy . some of us blokes find it attractive in a girl lol

 

[Oscelot]

I've always liked em'! Even before I was nervous and awkward myself = ].

 

[TimArends]

Don't think this has to be a bad thing. It depends on how extreme it is. The word for a woman who is pleasantly or appealingly shy is "demure". As in the dictionary definition: (of a woman or her behavior) reserved, modest, and shy.

Of course, taking anything to too great an extreme is not a good thing.

 

[Dodger]

If you are a nice person who is intelligent and an accepting person you would be a quality person to me.

 

[CharleneProst]

Here's the deal - it's not your clumsiness that would be a problem but YOU having a problem with clumsiness.

I'm sure you've met people who were open and honest about their "flaws".

How much more relaxed were you around those people VS someone who is all uptight because they are trying NOT to have flaws?

Something to ponder