So my wife suggested we get out and go have dinner at a nice restaurant this evening. It'll be fun, she said. It'll take our minds off of your deceased dog, she said. So we go to the place and have a nice dinner. The waitress was friendly and our food was out to us promptly. I was playing with the kids and trying to pretend to be happy. The waitress brings the bill and I excuse myself to go pay for the dinner, no problem, still putting on the happy face. I get to the cash register and the girl asks how our meal was. I replied that it was very good and handed her the bill and a $100 bill. She looks at the money and looks at me and points to a sign on the wall saying "NO LARGE BILLS" and just looks at me. Before I could pull one of my many credit cards out of my wallet she looks at me with scorn and says, "I can do that THIS TIME but don't do this again" I was kind of taken off guard and I get mad, it infuriated me that she would talk down to me that way! So I said "hey I don't need the attitude and don't act like you're doing me a favor by taking my money" she looks surprised and says "what attitude sir?" I say " 'I'll take this $100 bill THIS TIME,... THIS TIME...THIS TIME???' Don't worry, I won't be back! I won't be talked down to so take your power trip and shove it up your ***." As soon as I said that, and I had raised my voice somewhat by then, this teenage looking boy wearing an apron walks out and says "is there a problem sir?" I looked at him and pointed to the kitchen and yelled at him "get your butt back to washing dishes before you have a problem you can't handle, boy!" Wide-eyed he retreats to the kitchen. The girl had tears in her eyes and said "I apologize for saying that to you, sir. I am really sorry" I looked at her and felt my ears getting hot and said "I KNOW you're sorry. You shouldn't talk to people like that. I'll take my business elsewhere in the future" She said, "Sir, I'm the manager and I could get in trouble for arguing with customers so would you accept my apology with a free meal next time?" That statement right there caused me to lose my temper, I said "Oh you're the manager,huh? Well you need to learn how to manage your attitude better! And you can take your free meal and go to hell!!!!" I got my change and gathered up the kids and wife and left. I always try to be nice to people that work in restaurants and fast food because I know they have low paying jobs and people can be mean to them so I am always nice. Mess up my order? It's cool, don't worry about it. Give me incorrect change? Everybody is human and makes mistakes. I NEVER make a big deal out of stuff like that. Ever. Talk down to me? I will get mad and raise my voice over that. I won't take that at all.