Bugs
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Over thinking. I observed that most of us here are over thinking people. We tend to think much about how a situation would end, what's the best way to react in a certain situation, did I do well or not, what could other people be possibly thinking about me after what I did or say... etc. And then we become fearful of things sometimes unfounded. We start thinking of negative things about situations, people, ourselves, and life itself. We conclude everything in our mind, and so since we've thought of bad things we tend to be overwhelmed and feel sad about them.
I have a not so happy childhood and I've experience many pains from people. But I've heard and read many here who have experienced worse than me. However, most of us haven't let them go and they recur because we over think about them. I tried to mingle with other people. As I began to know them better, I realized that they also have bad things happen to them but they just let it go, moved on, grew up.
We are all haunted. It's part of life. We just have to learn how go accept ourselves and go on with our chosen way of life.
Anything you want to say to this?
I have a not so happy childhood and I've experience many pains from people. But I've heard and read many here who have experienced worse than me. However, most of us haven't let them go and they recur because we over think about them. I tried to mingle with other people. As I began to know them better, I realized that they also have bad things happen to them but they just let it go, moved on, grew up.
We are all haunted. It's part of life. We just have to learn how go accept ourselves and go on with our chosen way of life.
Anything you want to say to this?