Wait til your married. I think when you find someone special they'll appreciate being your first, and I suspect you'd feel the same adversely - it's a terrible feeling knowing you're "guy # X". Know what I mean? Even if you might not believe in waiting that long, the point I think is that people shouldn't feel guilty simply for exhibiting some maturity when it comes to sex; wait until you're financially and emotionally ready to deal with the consequences.
The fiftth year an college and no sex
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Thanks guys, i ve seen different vantage points and some inspiring advices here. But i can not help thinking about some characters in movies, some looser guys but sex takes care of itself in that movies. why is not it that easy for me? anyone watched the movie 'try seventeen' will understand what i mean
By the way of course it s not the major interest of me, not my only worrry, not something prevents me to keep going, keep studying
i just notice and find it awkward nowadays
By the way of course it s not the major interest of me, not my only worrry, not something prevents me to keep going, keep studying
i just notice and find it awkward nowadays
Yeah everything in movies is just like in real life, right? </sarcasm>
The movies don't show teenage mamas on social security and students with 2+ abortions behind them, or girls who can't have kids later (and regret having abortion before) or daddies with 4+ kids all over Europe or... hey, or maybe you're watching the wrong movies?? hmmph! - Try Juno? Or some other more realistic films?
Matthew, it can be about maturity, or it can be about different things. Part of it is maturity too, I think. At least with some people.. I was raised Catholic so maturity and responsibility and being ready to deal with any unwanted consequences was a big part of it..
If you want to find other people who might appreciate this as maturity, you might find them in some church organisations/websites or elsewhere too.. Yeah, there are even Catholic dating sites and such, where people are totally into the maturity thing and waiting till marriage hehe.. (Even if they are MUCH older!!)
The movies don't show teenage mamas on social security and students with 2+ abortions behind them, or girls who can't have kids later (and regret having abortion before) or daddies with 4+ kids all over Europe or... hey, or maybe you're watching the wrong movies?? hmmph! - Try Juno? Or some other more realistic films?
Matthew, it can be about maturity, or it can be about different things. Part of it is maturity too, I think. At least with some people.. I was raised Catholic so maturity and responsibility and being ready to deal with any unwanted consequences was a big part of it..
If you want to find other people who might appreciate this as maturity, you might find them in some church organisations/websites or elsewhere too.. Yeah, there are even Catholic dating sites and such, where people are totally into the maturity thing and waiting till marriage hehe.. (Even if they are MUCH older!!
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Hm, I don't know how you can go wrong with strawberry picking?
Also depends if you go to an organic strawberry farm or not.. (not sure if I'd dare to eat non-organic straight up lol) The above can also be topics of conversation maybe then (eg half my family is allergic to strawberries but I totally adore'em!! lol! Not such a fan of picking'em tho, lol, to be honest
Well I will be taking Botany next semester so I guess I can find an interest in something like that haha. But no, you don't know just how unbelievably awkward I am, it could be a "hey lets all stare at a blank wall" meet up group and I would probably find a way to look weird. I'm gonna try and work up the courage to go out and try new things but its slow going. But the only time I feel comfortable really is if its nerdy stuff and they're hours drive away. And whats wrong with your country?
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Yeah everything in movies is just like in real life, right? </sarcasm>
The movies don't show teenage mamas on social security and students with 2+ abortions behind them, or girls who can't have kids later (and regret having abortion before) or daddies with 4+ kids all over Europe or... hey, or maybe you're watching the wrong movies?? hmmph! - Try Juno? Or some other more realistic films?
Matthew, it can be about maturity, or it can be about different things. Part of it is maturity too, I think. At least with some people.. I was raised Catholic so maturity and responsibility and being ready to deal with any unwanted consequences was a big part of it..
If you want to find other people who might appreciate this as maturity, you might find them in some church organisations/websites or elsewhere too.. Yeah, there are even Catholic dating sites and such, where people are totally into the maturity thing and waiting till marriage hehe.. (Even if they are MUCH older!!
come on screw the movies, i just wanted it to be easy