the deformed one

[Lone Ranger]

Hello, I am 20 years old and I live in a highly populated area of Connecticut. I have been very sad lately because I am very lonley and I truley belive that I will die alone, unless my parents are still alive. Through out my life, I have been treated unfairly by every one except my mother. My family on mom's side are always complaining about what I do, my cousin used to be a very good friend but now she totaly ignores me (she is my age), the only person who calls me is my friend I met in my home town but now he lives in Cali, I feel like I am the ugliest person I have ever met because every one else my age is having parteis and having lots of sex (even 5 years my junior!) I am very uncomfortable around people, mostly because almost every one has let me down!

Please give me some advice so I can feel better (I hope that was't too long)

 

[BlackPuma]

I'm afraid a one-post advice phrase won't work in this case. It takes time. But fret not, many here go through the same, or similar problems. And we're all here to help, and be helped. :3

So stick around, read the threads and discuss your/others experiences here. The people here are very helpful, and I even dare say that every single one of them (or at least most of them) are worthy of being life long friends. You'll see. ;3

Welcome to the forums, Ranger. I hope you find comfort here. =3

 

[EasySkanking]

I feel just like you . Welcome ranger, I hope things get better for you.

 

[Darryl]

Welcome aboard!

 

[zav943]

Welcome to SPW!
I'm sure you'll find a lot of people to relate with here (like me!)

 

[fitftw]

A lot of us feel ugly often. Welcome to SPW!

 

[Walk]

Hello, I am 20 years old and I live in a highly populated area of Connecticut. I have been very sad lately because I am very lonley and I truley belive that I will die alone, unless my parents are still alive. Through out my life, I have been treated unfairly by every one except my mother. My family on mom's side are always complaining about what I do, my cousin used to be a very good friend but now she totaly ignores me (she is my age), the only person who calls me is my friend I met in my home town but now he lives in Cali, I feel like I am the ugliest person I have ever met because every one else my age is having parteis and having lots of sex (even 5 years my junior!) I am very uncomfortable around people, mostly because almost every one has let me down!

Please give me some advice so I can feel better (I hope that was't too long)

You're not alone. That's the first step.

Don't allow yourself to be consumed by feelings of guilt and even feelings of self-pity. Everyone in this world has problems.

Be pro-active about your problems on a regular basis. you might slide back and have to recoup, but that's life.

 

[DekKO]

You are the one in control of turning your life around. I go here for advice but mainly I come here for support. It's nice to talk to someone who is experiencing the same things you are and with a little encouragement you can't get rid of your SA. Just take it one step at a time. Read and post on the forums and get involved. You will feel really good and you will make really good friends on here. I promise you!

 

[PunkRotten]

Dont worry about whats wrong with others, only worry about whats wrong with you. There is reasons why you are this way. Change some of the circumstances in your life, take some risks, set up some goals etc.

 

[Feathers]

Hi Ranger!

There are a lot of teen pregnancies in the world and I commend you for not taking this lightly!!

Actually, you may meet a girl who will be happy that you did not sleep around and you may have a better relationship than some people who did!

As for parties - some parties can be incredibly boring, it depends on who you are with. Maybe try to find some interesting people (depending on what your interests are) and then it will be easier to be with them on parties too..
I've heard the same thing about sex too, if you like just hanging out with someone and you have fun together, it will be good, if not, it can be a terrible experience at the time or after too..

It can be bad when friends move or relatives suddenly develop other interests.. Please know there are probably lots of people who'd just love to have you as a friend and maybe just don't know that you exist?