Stressball
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Long story short, my boyfriend discovered his vehicle registration number is not legally under his name and government workers messed up three time in giving him the forms and procedures to fix it. He finally got the right forms, but it'll take 3-5 weeks to get through and if he drives within that time and get pulls over he could be put in jail for 6 years under the law. But he has no choice, he has to drive to work and literally has nobody else that can take him.
And then out of the blue he blamed it all on me for putting a banana in his bag, which rotted and destroyed all the proper forms and documents he needed to go through the processes more smoothly. I honestly couldn't believe this, what person keeps critical documents like that crunched under their bag anyway? I put the banana in there for his lunch, then blamed his major life disaster on me. He got angry saying I should have put it in a proper container. Doesn't make sense to me since my family always put fruit in bags and eat it the next day. He left it in there for like a week forgetting about it and it rotted.
Sorry if this seems funny or overblown, but I don't know what the heck I did wrong and he really hurt me. Was it my fault at all or is he dodging responsibility? How should I try to get it into his head that he has really hurt me for supposedly "ruining his life?"
And then out of the blue he blamed it all on me for putting a banana in his bag, which rotted and destroyed all the proper forms and documents he needed to go through the processes more smoothly. I honestly couldn't believe this, what person keeps critical documents like that crunched under their bag anyway? I put the banana in there for his lunch, then blamed his major life disaster on me. He got angry saying I should have put it in a proper container. Doesn't make sense to me since my family always put fruit in bags and eat it the next day. He left it in there for like a week forgetting about it and it rotted.
Sorry if this seems funny or overblown, but I don't know what the heck I did wrong and he really hurt me. Was it my fault at all or is he dodging responsibility? How should I try to get it into his head that he has really hurt me for supposedly "ruining his life?"
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