So I just got a girlfriend

kristina303

kristina303

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Geo said:
Ugh this was one of the best days of my life. I hung out at her house from after school to 9pm and it was awesome. We kissed, made out (the first time for both of us so we felt awkward) and talked about our future. I haven't experienced love to this degree before and I feel happier than I ever did in my whole life. Haha I bet I sound so weird.
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I want that feeling so bad. Just hearing someone I don't even know talk about it makes me jealous. Sometimes I feel like I'll never find someone. You're very lucky.
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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The Lone Gunman said:
big thing, DONT go into it TRYING to impress her or worrying she wont like you. Youve done that. You kissed and made first contact and she wants to see you again. Diplomatic relations have been established.

As scary as this may sound to you, BE YOURSELF. let her see who you are as a person. And if your feeling a little nervous, be honest with her about it. Dont elaborate too much. But just tell her your a little shy. Chances are she feels the same, Even if shes had BFs before, your still someone new and the chemistry is still forming.
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Gotta agree with all of this. Just be yourself because you seem to be doing everything right.
 
Geo

Geo

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kristina303 said:
I want that feeling so bad. Just hearing someone I don't even know talk about it makes me jealous. Sometimes I feel like I'll never find someone. You're very lucky.
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I'm lucky we fell in love? Meh, thinking like that makes me sad. You ARE pretty and your prince will come someday soon.

Also you guys were right, the butterfly feeling in my stomach is gone now because I've assured my feelings for her. Also my ex who blocked me on facebook last year just sent me a friend request. Guess she saw I got over her. God this has been one HUGE month.
 
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Amitush123

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Geo said:
I'm lucky we fell in love? Meh, thinking like that makes me sad. You ARE pretty and your prince will come someday soon.

Also you guys were right, the butterfly feeling in my stomach is gone now because I've assured my feelings for her. Also my ex who blocked me on facebook last year just sent me a friend request. Guess she saw I got over her. God this has been one HUGE month.
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God I've been waiting for ages to use this one :D
 

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Section_31

Section_31

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oooh dude! no no no exes!!!

Every time ive been "friends" with an ex after getting with someone new nothing goods ever come of it....Its a trap!!!

I now personally go by the rule if we break up we dont talk. I dont do the friends afterwards thing. By no means be rude or a douche of course, i still respect everyone. I just quietly let them fade out of my life.
 
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Amitush123

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The Lone Gunman said:
oooh dude! no no no exes!!!

Every time ive been "friends" with an ex after getting with someone new nothing goods ever come of it....Its a trap!!!

I now personally go by the rule if we break up we dont talk. I dont do the friends afterwards thing. By no means be rude or a douche of course, i still respect everyone. I just quietly let them fade out of my life.
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Exactly! ex's will shorten your life!
 
Geo

Geo

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I haven't accepted it, the last thing I want is for old feelings of her to crawl back at this harmonic time of my life. I told my gf and she said "I'll just go and casually sharpen a few knives?" :p
 
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Amitush123

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Geo said:
I haven't accepted it, the last thing I want is for old feelings of her to crawl back at this harmonic time of my life. I told my gf and she said "I'll just go and casually sharpen a few knives?" :p
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Oh don't pay any attention to me, I just LOVE that meme :) and your sounds nice, bringing her own knives!
 
Section_31

Section_31

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Awsome!. Thats a big sign that shes hooked on you (as if you needed one right? :p)

Stick with this one, she sounds like a keeper.

Were all living vicariously through you G, LOL
 
Thelema

Thelema

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Exes just want you around for the ego boost and to try and make you jealous. Block her on fb and be done with it!

Good to hear things are going well for you.
 
Geo

Geo

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Updates? Well things have done nothing but escalate these past few weeks. Tonight she hinted to me that on friday she is ready to uh, pop our cherries. I love her to death and I really wanna give her my v-card. I'm thinking a million things now and that butterfly feeling from before is back. (This probably belongs in the friendship and love section)
 
twiggle

twiggle

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Geo said:
Updates? Well things have done nothing but escalate these past few weeks. Tonight she hinted to me that on friday she is ready to uh, pop our cherries. I love her to death and I really wanna give her my v-card. I'm thinking a million things now and that butterfly feeling from before is back. (This probably belongs in the friendship and love section)
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Hey, don't be nervous (I'm assuming that's what you mean by 'butterflies'). You've got a girlfriend you really care about and who cares about you back. You have both made the decision to go ahead and take it to the next level. Yes the first time is often a bit awkward and maybe a bit fumbling (I have to be honest about that...) but you're in it together. You're doing it because you love one another. That's all you need to make it special.

Enjoy it :)
 
xDreamseller

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It's awesome to see a "success story" here on spw. :)

Well done on overcoming whatever anxiety's you may have had and I really hope it works out for you.
 
OceanMist

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Geo said:
And am extremely happy. But ever since then I've had massive butterflies in my stomach and can't eat much. Every time I think about her/text her there's this swelling in my stomach that just makes me not hungry. It's terrible cause I'm on a bulking diet which requires me to eat as much as possible. So is there like anything I can do to get rid of the feeling?
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I've had a somewhat similar problem. On the dates I've been on, there used to be times when I only could eat half of what I normally eat due to anxiety.

I've since improved, and you will too. Let time heal this wound. Time and experience.

Your body has to get used to having a g/f.

The more experiences you have in dating, the more you'll be able to eat hopefully.
 
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