Skipping invitations from friends?

[Kiwong]

Lucky. Sometimes it fills people with guilt.

It fills me with dread because I am unco-ordinated

 

[Phoenixx]

Lately I've been finding myself making up more excuses to not go do something with my friends. I hate myself for declining, but it's like I feel just as much hate when I do go and do something. I guess it's just that I constantly feel so self-conscious. I can never be myself in public or anything because I feel like everyone is out to judge me. Even if it's just going to a friend's house, I get really anxious.

 

[JamesSmith]

I hate groups too. It's so much harder for me to be a part of the conversation when i'm in a group. I usually just sit there and listen to everyone else, or at least I did do that. Now I just hang out by myself all the time. I wish every social situation was 1 on 1, i may actually socialize with people now if that were the case, but it's not. All the social people want to be in groups most of the time. I think that's the huge difference between me and them. Group talk is foreign to me, I don't know what to do or say when in a group.

 

[Minty]

I've been doing this lately. There's just no motivation anymore. I don't have fun with them and I get painfully bored. I think if our hang outs were more entertaining it would be worth feeling anxiety.

I pretty much just hang out with them, get anxious and really bored and walk away with nothing.

 

[HeadFace]

Lately I've been finding myself making up more excuses to not go do something with my friends. I hate myself for declining, but it's like I feel just as much hate when I do go and do something. I guess it's just that I constantly feel so self-conscious. I can never be myself in public or anything because I feel like everyone is out to judge me. Even if it's just going to a friend's house, I get really anxious.

Nah... It's not that feeling of everyone judging me. It's just anxiety when there's more people there.

I hate groups too. It's so much harder for me to be a part of the conversation when i'm in a group. I usually just sit there and listen to everyone else, or at least I did do that. Now I just hang out by myself all the time. I wish every social situation was 1 on 1, i may actually socialize with people now if that were the case, but it's not. All the social people want to be in groups most of the time. I think that's the huge difference between me and them. Group talk is foreign to me, I don't know what to do or say when in a group.

Yeah. Like I've said before, groups are hell to me. 1 on 1, or maybe me and two other people is alright. More than that it's just bad...

 

[nzm33443]

I often do this. Especially if its to a party. My first thought is usually "how can I get out of this".

 

[Chriiss]

I don't really get invites to partys. But I do make excuses when asked to go out for a family meal... Hate it!

 

[scoobycrawler]

I get an invitation on my Xbox 360 all the time and just ignore its becuase i just act like im not there and they keep commin and just keep on commin.

 

[geminimomma]

i do it all the time. i have lost every single friend because of it.

 

[HeadFace]

i do it all the time. i have lost every single friend because of it.

That... Sucks. I don't do it all the time. Just when there's people I don't know going, or the group is way too big. So... I do it loads. I'll actually accept the invitation maybe once every... long while.

I don't really get invites to partys. But I do make excuses when asked to go out for a family meal... Hate it!

Yeah. I live with my family and I'm already doing this.
Going out to visit people? Gotta study
Gonna go eat? Gotta finish this work
Movies? Busy
etc.