Should I visit a hooker?

[Emma]

I would avoid hooker, unless you want to be renamed Scabby Sam when you get herpes 8O

(Sorry if anyone on here is a hooker )

 

[ripewithdecay]

Go for it. It's not a big deal, you'll soon discover.

Is it not even slightly pleasurable?

It is. Well, I guess I can only speak for myself.
What I mean by not a big deal is the very act of doing it.
Unless you're religious I think you should not be concerned about regret. Just be safe.

 

[dottie]

don't do it. do you want to live the rest of your life knowing you lost your virginity to a hooker? you don't have to save your viriginity for the right woman or whatever but at least have some standards! and if you fuck a hooker- good luck not getting herpes or warts (which condoms do NOT protect against)! and you don't have to see them to catch them.

 

[Nabu]

I got my first kiss with 27 and lost my virginity. It wasn't a hooker, but I was not in love with her.
For me it wasn't fun, but at least this stupid obsessive thinking stopped.
I'm not so deeply religious and so I don't regret it and I would do it again.

However, you should keep in mind, it will not change your life and it will not solve your problems.

 

[Rodox]

imo if you are with doubts and need to come here asking if you should do it or not,its best to not do it, only do it when you are sure.

 

[j_brown87]

Genital warts for one, because it's spread through skin to skin contact of the affected area and the affected area usually includes the anus or peritoneum wich comes into direct contact with your loosely covered base. Just because you dont happen to see any warts down there doesnt mean they're not hiding somewhere, like on the cervix or stuck between some folds or wrinkles. Some people carry the virus and never grow any warts, but you sure as shit will. You can get it through making out or oral sex too, since the mucous membranes of the throat are fair game for the virus. (Pesky as hell.)

Hepatitus spreads through saliva sometimes, so you can get it from kissing an infected person. You cant tell someone has Hep C untill their liver starts shutting down and they get jaundiced. (So, you know. Dont fuck a yellow hooker?)

It's a high-stakes gamble.

So how do you go about those things with a girlfriend? I mean she could have those things too. Do you ask her to show you a health certificate or what? Or you just aske her if she is clean?

 

[DaDahhhhDaDaDa]

If you are anything like me and worry over the moral, social, health and religious consequences of going to a prostitute you should really keep away because there is a good chance it's just gonna make you worse. I imagine when you get your first 'taste' of sex you're just gonna want more, I wouldn't know but judging from what my friends say this is the case.

My personal take, if I ever consider sleeping with a prostitute, it would be on a holiday to Amsterdam or something. That way, whatever was done in Amsterdam during the holiday stays in Amsterdam.

 

[Argamemnon]

don't do it. do you want to live the rest of your life knowing you lost your virginity to a hooker? you don't have to save your viriginity for the right woman or whatever but at least have some standards! and if you fuck a hooker- good luck not getting herpes or warts (which condoms do NOT protect against)! and you don't have to see them to catch them.

It's much better regulated here in the Netherlands than in the US (and most other countries). I have no standards, I know I won't get a partner in my life, so I really have no choice. It won't become a habit, but I have to experience it once. I don't think I want too much, do I? I'm human too you know!

 

[Argamemnon]

I got my first kiss with 27 and lost my virginity. It wasn't a hooker, but I was not in love with her.
For me it wasn't fun, but at least this stupid obsessive thinking stopped.
I'm not so deeply religious and so I don't regret it and I would do it again.

However, you should keep in mind, it will not change your life and it will not solve your problems.

Hi Nabu, could you elaborate. Why wasn't it fun, lol.

 

[Nabu]

I replied to your pn.

to make it short I was not in love with her.

 

[bulent]

Once or never,what's the difference where you can't do it regularly? There are bigger problems in life for social phobics to be solved. I'll be 30 ten days later and today it's my last summer day of my twenties. I wasted half of my teenage years and all of my 20's at home;now i'll go out for a walk and spend last hours of the day thinking how i'm gonna waste next ten years...

 

[Nabu]

Once or never,what's the difference where you can't do it regularly?.

Beside this weird thinking about it.
In the age of 13 I thought my problem would be resolved if I'm getting older (18) and/or having a girl friend.

My thought were focused what I missed at that time.

Today I really miss to enjoy my life, having a drink with friend or travelling.

 

[dottie]

It's much better regulated here in the Netherlands than in the US (and most other countries). I have no standards, I know I won't get a partner in my life, so I really have no choice. It won't become a habit, but I have to experience it once. I don't think I want too much, do I? I'm human too you know!

sure there may be "better" regulations. what do they do, test the prostitute every couple of weeks? the guy she fucked right before you could have been std-ridden. many std's don't even show symptoms for at least six months. so, she may not even be testable for something and very well could pass it on to you.

when you get your first 'taste' of sex you're just gonna want more

lol it's not heroine!

to be honest, having sex one time is not enough to know what sex is like. sure, you will have had lost your virginity but virgins don't really know how to have sex, or at least have sex well. it is a learning experience.

regardless, i think rodox had the best advice when he said:

imo if you are with doubts and need to come here asking if you should do it or not,its best to not do it, only do it when you are sure.

 

[HH]

I've seriousley thought about visiting a prostitute myself-or someone who just wants to get laid (on those sex dating web sites) but I've never had the bottle to go through with it. I worry about the health side of it but to me its more of a embarassment/lack of experience that's putting me off the idea.

Part of me just wants to get it over and done with but I guess I'm a bit old fashioned and long for my first time to be with someone I love-and who loves me. But time is ticking and I'm still single. Sigh

 

[Argamemnon]

sure there may be "better" regulations. what do they do, test the prostitute every couple of weeks? the guy she fucked right before you could have been std-ridden. many std's don't even show symptoms for at least six months. so, she may not even be testable for something and very well could pass it on to you.


lol it's not heroine!

to be honest, having sex one time is not enough to know what sex is like. sure, you will have had lost your virginity but virgins don't really know how to have sex, or at least have sex well. it is a learning experience.

regardless, i think rodox had the best advice when he said:

imo if you are with doubts and need to come here asking if you should do it or not,its best to not do it, only do it when you are sure.

You're basically saying that I'd better find a partner or never have sex. The only option is to die as a virgin then (I already told you that I'm not the type to find/meet a partner). So would you say it's not a big deal to die as a virgin?

 

[dottie]

So you're basically saying that I'd better find a partner or never have sex. The only option is to die as a virgin then, since I already told you I will never have a partner.

my advice is to not use a prostitute. everyone has an opinion, that is mine.

but i also don't want you to give up hope in ever having a relationship. do you not want to ever have a relationship or do you think it is something you can't do?

 

[Argamemnon2]

my advice is to not use a prostitute. everyone has an opinion, that is mine.

but i also don't want you to give up hope in ever having a relationship. do you not want to ever have a relationship or do you think it is something you can't do?

Maybe both.. I know I couldn't handle the stress and anxiety.

 

[Kien]

I dreamed like 2 days ago that I was to visit a hooker. (O,o)

 

[siren_0_0]

First, I'm sorry for being so blunt. As a 32 year old virgin, I don't want to lose my sanity. Should I just visit a hooker and get it over with? It's driving me nuts. It's very hard for me because of my SA, and also because I'm religious. But just once.. to preserve my sanity?

If you are religious, then you should know that it will be a sin! Unless you are catholic and plan on going to confession afterwards, then it should be no problem. i kid! keke.

If you must really do it, research it first. Hire one from a reputable escort agency (I can't believe I'm saying this! lol) Don't go to a street corner and grab the first crackhead you see.

 

[Kien]

Having sex before marriage or even looking at a woman with lust is sinny. And if she dress lustly, she is also sinny.