Should I visit a hooker?

[HH]

Having sex before marriage or even looking at a woman with lust is sinny. And if she dress lustly, she is also sinny.

being sinny is bad for you umkay!

 

[Ken]

If at all possible, go to Nevada. The brothels there are legal, and they probably do std tests often. Your confidence is low enough, without herpes being involved.

 

[Kien]

Having sex before marriage or even looking at a woman with lust is sinny. And if she dress lustly, she is also sinny.

being sinny is bad for you umkay!

I wonder if it is sinny to look at a woman's boobs. (o,o)

 

[zootdroop]

First, I'm sorry for being so blunt. As a 32 year old virgin, I don't want to lose my sanity. Should I just visit a hooker and get it over with? It's driving me nuts. It's very hard for me because of my SA, and also because I'm religious. But just once.. to preserve my sanity?

I don't see how it would hurt, do you people know how much it hurts to be 32 and not having experienced sex even once. I think most of you are still young and can't really relate to what I'm saying. I'm getting old, I must hurry.

I'm 32 and a virgin and it doesn't bother me at all really. What bothers me more is never having had a girlfriend, a real friend, someone to connect with and knowing I probably never will.
If you feel you have to go to a hooker to feel better, do it. Though I doubt it really will make you feel any better. I Know I couldn't have sex with someone I didn't know or like, it doesn't appeal to me one bit.

 

[samk]

go for it and you live somewhere that it's really clean.

who cares what moralists think.

moralists ruin more lives then help.

 

[Argamemnon]

go for it and you live somewhere that it's really clean.

who cares what moralists think.

moralists ruin more lives then help.

But maybe dottie has a point:

sure there may be "better" regulations. what do they do, test the prostitute every couple of weeks? the guy she fucked right before you could have been std-ridden. many std's don't even show symptoms for at least six months. so, she may not even be testable for something and very well could pass it on to you.

 

[Ken]

go for it and you live somewhere that it's really clean.

who cares what moralists think.

moralists ruin more lives then help.

But maybe dottie has a point:

sure there may be "better" regulations. what do they do, test the prostitute every couple of weeks? the guy she fucked right before you could have been std-ridden. many std's don't even show symptoms for at least six months. so, she may not even be testable for something and very well could pass it on to you.

If your going to a place that is relatively clean, then the hookers probably make the guys wear condoms. So getting a std, from a clean brothel, is actually about the same chance as getting one from any girl that you sleep with.

 

[Argamemnon]

I think I'll go for it when I feel better. I have to rewire my brain in the meantime

 

[krs7snow]

Oh Arg, Just don't do it!! You are better than a hooker! Force yourself to go to a bar and pick yourself up a babe for a one nite stand. It'd be the same thing basically but at least you wouldn't have to pay. And it'd be less demeaning, ya know? Forget prostitutes. :wink:

~Krs2snow~

(What IS the deal w/the 7 post limit, anyway? Dumb, I say)

 

[Argamemnon]

Oh Arg, Just don't do it!!

I'm not cheating on you! As far as I know, you aren't my girlfriend!

Force yourself to go to a bar and pick yourself up a babe for a one nite stand. It'd be the same thing basically but at least you wouldn't have to pay. And it'd be less demeaning, ya know? Forget prostitutes. :wink:

Me? Not funny krs7snow! The number 7 made me laugh by the way.

 

[dottie]

If your going to a place that is relatively clean, then the hookers probably make the guys wear condoms. So getting a std, from a clean brothel, is actually about the same chance as getting one from any girl that you sleep with.

click these links and look at these pictures:

genital warts pictures

genital herpes

these are STDs you can get while wearing a condom. they are spread by skin to skin contact. they stay with you for the rest of your life. i've heard that it's something like one in four people have genital warts. imagine how many people a hooker fucks... i don't believe in such a clean brothel.

it is true that there is risk anytime you have sex but the steaks go up way high as soon as you bring hooker into the picture. i hate using a public restroom so i can't imagine using a public fuck-hole.

ok i'll shut up about it now.

 

[krs2snow]

I'm not cheating on you! As far as I know, you aren't my girlfriend!

Hi Argamemnon. It's not about me! It's about you having respect for yourself!

 

[Argamemnon]

Hi Argamemnon. It's not about me! It's about you having respect for yourself!

Hi krs2snow. I was talking to krs7snow, I kindly ask you not to interfere I came off a bit agressive, that was so not me, lol. Having respect for myself? I have respect for myself, and I don't see why I'd lose this by visiting a hooker. Would I respect myself more, if I remain a virgin at age 60? :lol:

 

[Marie_knowsbest]

I dunno. its one of those things aint it. you could get a hooker, and your not hurting no one because thats her job, she dont mind being used, coz she gets payed. your a guy, your just looking for a god shaggin. no harm in that, loadsa blokes go to amsterdam for that pure fact lol.
but if u find a girl in a bar, and you use her, its not gonna make her feel to good...plus you might not like the experenice.
atleast a hooker will do everything! u wont have to lift a finger lol

 

[Argamemnon]

Hi krs2snow. I was talking to krs7snow, I kindly ask you not to interfere

LoL. I didn't feel like you were being too aggressive.

It's kinda disrespecting yourself to have to pay someone to sleep w/you, you know? Why do that when you could get yourself out there for one nite and find a lady friend willing to disrespect herself instead! lol. By sleeping w/ya on the first nite! (that slut! haha )

I think you already know that I could never do that Also, I'm really not the type to enjoy casual sex. I'm super self-conscious and very introverted. I'm dreaming about having a loving relationship..

 

[Argamemnon2]

Oh no. I don't want to be caught in the middle between two enemies. Good night girls, I have to go asleep

 

[Marie_knowsbestt]

lol honest, i was just puttin it how a girl would see it. dont matter wether she posts about it or not. i even agree with what she said to an extent, just think a hooker would be better than some girl in a club if thats all ya after. night lol xx

 

[krs2snow]

I think you already know that I could never do that Wink Also, I'm really not the type to enjoy casual sex.

Hey Argememnon. You could do it for one nite! You're gonna have to go to the brothel or down the street to find a hooker so you could muster up the courage to go to a bar. But, um, if you don't think you're the type to like casual sex... I think you just answered your own question!

 

[Argamemnon]

Hey Argememnon. You could do it for one nite! You're gonna have to go to the brothel or down the street to find a hooker so you could muster up the courage to go to a bar. But, um, if you don't think you're the type to like casual sex... I think you just answered your own question!

It's not the same krs2snow. Going to a brothel, although very hard for people with social anxiety, is much easier than talking to and "seducing" a girl at a bar..

 

[krs7snow]

Hey Argememnon. S'me again, Krs7snow. (It's either Damn that 7 post limit OR I gotta take some time off of this site!!! For Reeaal. haha)

I know what you're saying. I just don't think you should jeopardize your self-worth & pay for sex. Especially for your first time. I'm a girl so of course I'd say this but, it would really depress me if my first time was w/someone I paid. But, maybe you don't put a lot of importance on it being "The First" time. I guess I don't know what you should do! You're in a quandary for sure!!