should i tell my bf where im met my friend

[LazyHermitCrab]

So it's been set that i'm gonna meet this girl from online. My boyfriend always asks what i'm doing and i'm sure he will say "whatcha doing" when i'm meeting this girl. It's a website specifically for friendship only. I just don't want him to think i'm unable to make friends in real life.... which is kinda true for the last 5 years. Just the other day he was looking at my phone and the website popped up and he said "uh what's this?" I closed it and said "oh nothing." He reopened it probably to make sure i wasn't doing something bad and he started reading it looking confused. I closed it again and then he said "I was just reading it. What is it for?" Then I go lala you know.... >.> huggg me. He got distracted and was tired. I feel like the truth will come out if this becomes a real friend. What should i do? :/

 

[dottie]

you don't have to say you were fishing for female friends online... just say you're going to hang out with a girl you know online.

do you know her? how long have you known this person? be very careful.

 

[Metal_isthe_Answer]

There should be no shame in admitting to having trouble meeting new people, he should be just be happy that you two are together

 

[MikeyC]

If he makes a huge deal about you meeting a person, then it's pretty lousy on his part.

However, I agree with dottie: be careful meeting people online. 9 out of 10 times it's safe, but you can never be too sure.

 

[LazyHermitCrab]

you don't have to say you were fishing for female friends online... just say you're going to hang out with a girl you know online.

do you know her? how long have you known this person? be very careful.

But he might ask "from where online?"

 

[LazyHermitCrab]

We already added eachother on facebook and her friends seems real. We will be meeting inside a public bookstore too. Hope it works out

 

[Remus]

It's a website specifically for friendship only.

There's a website for that? what's the name? Might help others here wanting to make friends.

 

[LazyHermitCrab]

There's a website for that? what's the name? Might help others here wanting to make friends.

girlfriendsocial.com maybe there's one for guys too? i hope.

 

[MikeyC]

But he might ask "from where online?"

That shouldn't make a difference. It's not like you're looking for a replacement boyfriend, so he should be okay with it.