Nacho
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Hello all.
I have this issue with my ex girlfriend. I don't know whether I should contact her or not. I feel so depressed because I (think I) miss her, but I don't know if I should do anything about it.
We were together from September to February. Until January we had a great relationship. Both of us were truly happy. She made me happier than I have ever been. We could talk for hours on the phone almost every day. Everything was perfect!
One day in January things took a turn. She told me she had kissed a guy a few days earlier at his place...from that day our relationship became more and more unstable. She found numerous of excuses of why she couldn't talk on the phone that much and why she didn't have time to see me. We then only saw each other maybe once a week compared to 2-4 times before. Even SMS-texting got to a minimum.
I forgave her for cheating on me, but all of her stories (the last four weeks of our relationship) made me more and more suspecious and jealous. Was her stories true...or did she find an other guy? During this period she even suggested us to take a pause from each other so she could stable herself. One of her stories (which I believe - I have never met him though) is that her father's testicular cancer came back. Because of this I accepted the pause, but she couldn't keep her away from me, and we broke the pause. However, things didn't get any better, but kept going on like this, and I told her several times that I couldn't take it. All of this unknowness. I told her that we should grow stronger together instead of growing apart when things are difficult. Back then - and still today - I still don't know for sure why we grew apart like that... I almost know for certain that she's hiding something. It became too much and two weeks ago I broke up with her.
I think she played games with me. I think she cheated on me with not just a kiss...more than that. But for some reason I still think about her. I miss the GOOD times. I have thinking about asking her out to talk about everything...to see if we can work things out with one last attempt.
If we could end up together again with the same happiness as before then I think I would go for it.
What do you think? Am I too desperate? Or should I wait? :sad:
I have this issue with my ex girlfriend. I don't know whether I should contact her or not. I feel so depressed because I (think I) miss her, but I don't know if I should do anything about it.
We were together from September to February. Until January we had a great relationship. Both of us were truly happy. She made me happier than I have ever been. We could talk for hours on the phone almost every day. Everything was perfect!
One day in January things took a turn. She told me she had kissed a guy a few days earlier at his place...from that day our relationship became more and more unstable. She found numerous of excuses of why she couldn't talk on the phone that much and why she didn't have time to see me. We then only saw each other maybe once a week compared to 2-4 times before. Even SMS-texting got to a minimum.
I forgave her for cheating on me, but all of her stories (the last four weeks of our relationship) made me more and more suspecious and jealous. Was her stories true...or did she find an other guy? During this period she even suggested us to take a pause from each other so she could stable herself. One of her stories (which I believe - I have never met him though) is that her father's testicular cancer came back. Because of this I accepted the pause, but she couldn't keep her away from me, and we broke the pause. However, things didn't get any better, but kept going on like this, and I told her several times that I couldn't take it. All of this unknowness. I told her that we should grow stronger together instead of growing apart when things are difficult. Back then - and still today - I still don't know for sure why we grew apart like that... I almost know for certain that she's hiding something. It became too much and two weeks ago I broke up with her.
I think she played games with me. I think she cheated on me with not just a kiss...more than that. But for some reason I still think about her. I miss the GOOD times. I have thinking about asking her out to talk about everything...to see if we can work things out with one last attempt.
If we could end up together again with the same happiness as before then I think I would go for it.
What do you think? Am I too desperate? Or should I wait? :sad:
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