"She's out of my league"

Dex Dorrey

Active member
i have a huge problem of only being attracted to girls who are definitely out of my league....ive only been like really into 2 girls in my life and both of them were like top of the line, can have anyone they want type girls....insanely hot, extremely nice, outgoing, smart, funny...basically everything you could want in a girl, which is why i was obviously attracted to them....these girls were major league superstars and im just some bum whos probably not gonna make it past the rookie leagues.....i gotta find a way to stop fooling myself and get attracted to someone more realistic...
 

A friend

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i have a huge problem of only being attracted to girls who are definitely out of my league....ive only been like really into 2 girls in my life and both of them were like top of the line, can have anyone they want type girls....insanely hot, extremely nice, outgoing, smart, funny...basically everything you could want in a girl, which is why i was obviously attracted to them....these girls were major league superstars and im just some bum whos probably not gonna make it past the rookie leagues.....i gotta find a way to stop fooling myself and get attracted to someone more realistic...


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valle

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Ive definitely have like that before just by looking at a women for a second i always say she will never give a guy like me a chance.
 
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When meeting someone, I never feel that I´m out of their league.

But if it comes to having a serious relationship, I feel that I´m in a loner-league and the guy is always in a league of ... well many friends and good family.
I just never fit into their family & friends. I wish I could meet someone who is as lonely as myself, I always meet guys who expect me to get "better" and more "normal".

Exactly! And I always feel like such a loser compared to boyfriends like this.. they have great family and friends and don't understand why I don't, they try to make me become friends with their friends and it all just makes me feel worse and worse..
 

Nanita

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Exactly! And I always feel like such a loser compared to boyfriends like this.. they have great family and friends and don't understand why I don't, they try to make me become friends with their friends and it all just makes me feel worse and worse..

Yes that´s it...... Everything could be pretty good but it´s ruined by expectations and what not.
 

NP88

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If they have any kind of social life they are automatically out of my league. Who wants to date a loner... besides me :p
 

CZi

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Hmmm...for me it's hard to explain. I agree with everyone else who said they don't exactly feel below most girls "league" but more the feeling of "why would she want me over XYZ?" I have craptacular self-image perception and always feel I'm never good enough. D:

Admittedly I do feel attractive sometimes, but then I'll see someone else and immediately pick on my flaws to no end.
 

Diend

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Yes...I was crushing on a girl who was apparently smarter than me, more popular, came from a better background, and no doubt...beautiful.

I went as far as renting the movie "She's Out of Your League" starring Jay Baruchel.

Of all the girls I've had major crushes on, two were out of my league, one was somewhat out of my league, and one was barely out of my league. At least that's what I thought. The latter, i sent an anonymous rose to during the school fundraiser. I Facebook stalked the others. The girl I'm currently crushing on (refer back to the first sentence) I'm 95% sure liked me back when school was still in session. Now that it's summertime, we're both going to different colleges. I digress, but the fact that she was out of my league made me hesitate to approach her before school ended.
 
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