Sexual Attraction
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Felgen
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It depends. I was extremely happy when I found out that the woman who's now my girlfriend was attracted to me. She was single for five years and is extremely picky (and not to mention: extremely hot!) and then when she meets me, I'm the first one in five years who's good enough for her.
When less attractive girls are attracted to me though, it feels akward. Unattractive girls who like me, tend to find simple phrases such as "good morning", "good luck" and "have a nice day" as a sign of interest.
Logical Anxiety
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Whaaaat.
I would be really surprised if someone was attracted to me, out of all the other normal people out there. There was one time where a guy classmate told me I was pretty, and I felt strangely flattered but suspicious, because that same guy was the class joker. But then, he sounded serious...sigh.
I would be really surprised if someone was attracted to me, out of all the other normal people out there. There was one time where a guy classmate told me I was pretty, and I felt strangely flattered but suspicious, because that same guy was the class joker. But then, he sounded serious...sigh.
It can be a little bit awkward when I get approached, or when he stares/winks/smiles whatever...probably cause I feel bad for him, he thinks I'm like 16+ haha
But very flattered if he's smiling at me or he approaches to talk or ask for my number
Oh god awkward when I was in the supermarket, a guy approaches me and asks for my number, and I had to quickly give him a fake one....I was about to tell him I was 13 but he sort of...just assumed I was 18, haha. I thought it would be more awkward to correct him than give him a fake number
But very flattered if he's smiling at me or he approaches to talk or ask for my number
Oh god awkward when I was in the supermarket, a guy approaches me and asks for my number, and I had to quickly give him a fake one....I was about to tell him I was 13 but he sort of...just assumed I was 18, haha. I thought it would be more awkward to correct him than give him a fake number
coyote
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attraction - sexual or otherwise - is not always based purely on appearance
someone can be sexually attracted to you because of your personality, your sensuality, mannerisms, sense of humor, body language, etc....
and wanting to have sex with you doesn't have to mean they see you only as an object - they may very well be interested in you as a person, and still be interested in the physical stuff, too - those things aren't mutually exclusive
in fact, they may be more attracted to you sexually, because they like you as a person
anyway - to answer the original question...
when i find that someone is attracted to me, i feel flattered and slightly embarrassed at first
if it's someone i'm attracted to, i feel excited
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chrisjurban
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scared, like a have to perform for them and be perfect
Dead_on_Arrival
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Why does sexual attraction have to be about sex. What happened to love. I am sexually attracted to my wife but we don't have SEX. We never have, we MAKE LOVE.
I also get annoyed by the way all men seem to be tarred with the same brush aswell, like we are all only after ond thing.
I also get annoyed by the way all men seem to be tarred with the same brush aswell, like we are all only after ond thing.
I dress to have the least bit of sex appeal when in public, so if someone views me that way I'm usually pretty sure it's a manipulative lie. Either to insult or fakely flatter.
Of course, there's also the bluntly perverted that need very little to work with. It has happened before. :/
Of course, there's also the bluntly perverted that need very little to work with. It has happened before. :/
Lostinthemusic
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Flattered, but then suspicious. I can't quite yet believe that someone would be attracted to me...at least after getting to know me...
ScaredToBreathe
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I usually feel awkward and nautious. if I'm attracted to him too then I'd try to hang around him more and hope he'd ask me out.
but then dating is awkward too. when I had a bf he always wanted to be near me and look at me and it made me feel really awkward and I wasn't sure what to say or do and I usually just ended up beside one of my closer friends instead of my bf since I was so confused and anxious... ::
people have been attracted to me before but usually nothing ever happens because they never get to know me. and it takes a really long time to get to know me because of my SA. so I don't know how I'm ever gonna find a guy who will stay with me for year(s) just to see if they like the real me or not.
but then dating is awkward too. when I had a bf he always wanted to be near me and look at me and it made me feel really awkward and I wasn't sure what to say or do and I usually just ended up beside one of my closer friends instead of my bf since I was so confused and anxious... :
:people have been attracted to me before but usually nothing ever happens because they never get to know me. and it takes a really long time to get to know me because of my SA. so I don't know how I'm ever gonna find a guy who will stay with me for year(s) just to see if they like the real me or not.
BiWinning
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I show her my tattoo:
and ask her if she wanna be my coil.
That was an all around win.
Farady's law of induction as a pick up line? Great.
lilmutegirl
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It depends on the person. Generally, I'm flattered, but I do tend to have suspicions as well.
Usually (with guys I've dated), I've known the guy for some time, so it's usually not terribly shocking.
There was a guy years ago on whom I had a crush and I later realized that he may have liked me too (and, I'm assuming, was attracted to me). He was extremely hot, so I wasn't really sure if he geniunely was interested or not.
I am flattered that my bf is attracted to me, because I think he is really attractive.
Usually (with guys I've dated), I've known the guy for some time, so it's usually not terribly shocking.
There was a guy years ago on whom I had a crush and I later realized that he may have liked me too (and, I'm assuming, was attracted to me). He was extremely hot, so I wasn't really sure if he geniunely was interested or not.
I am flattered that my bf is attracted to me, because I think he is really attractive.
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Agent_Violet
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I'm surprised and confused. I automatically want to ask "WHY are you attracted to ME of all the people on the planet you could be attracted to?!"
but i don't ask bc then they'd think i was fishing for praise or something.
i just blush and say thanks.