Hottie
Well-known member
OH NO...
I just said the wrong thing to one family member of my next door neighbours. I was at a wake just ther and my nerves are gone. I cant deal with the intensity of things like that. Just looking at her in the coffin shook me up. I had the shakes and went over to her daughter and said first "im really sorry", hugged her, then said " i dont know how you deal with this", and hugged her again. i made her start to cry as i was starting to cry myself.
What person says "i dont know how you deal with this..."? I will not be able to let this go. I was so not fully with it that the shock and nerves took over and i couldnt think...
My mind is going to remember this and i will not get any sleep tonight as i will be dwelling on what ive just said. Why do i say stupid things? Why do i make things worse? Why couldnt i have just said "im sorry" or "condolenses"? Im a ejit....and there going to remember what i said...
I just said the wrong thing to one family member of my next door neighbours. I was at a wake just ther and my nerves are gone. I cant deal with the intensity of things like that. Just looking at her in the coffin shook me up. I had the shakes and went over to her daughter and said first "im really sorry", hugged her, then said " i dont know how you deal with this", and hugged her again. i made her start to cry as i was starting to cry myself.
What person says "i dont know how you deal with this..."? I will not be able to let this go. I was so not fully with it that the shock and nerves took over and i couldnt think...
My mind is going to remember this and i will not get any sleep tonight as i will be dwelling on what ive just said. Why do i say stupid things? Why do i make things worse? Why couldnt i have just said "im sorry" or "condolenses"? Im a ejit....and there going to remember what i said...