SA and Depression

Are social anxiety and depression related to each other by any chance? Because I've been really upset lately and haven't had a "good day" in months. I've also gotten pissed off really easily for the past month or so. Everything feels 10x worse when it happens and my self-esteem is no where to be found. Help?:confused:
 
I think that someone with SA is more likely to become depressed, but that depression isn't necessarily inevitable. If you've had SA for a long time, or are just not coping with it very well, depression will probably set in. Unfortunately, at least in my experience, once depression sets in, SA is that much harder to fight because your motivation and energy are whisked away- so in effect, I think you need to combat the depression before thinking about the SA- so it becomes a two-fold problem.
 

recluse

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Without a doubt yes. Depressed because of social phobia and social phobic because of depression. There is no escape.
 

Hoppy

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The deadly circle: Something causing Social anxiety causing depression causing something else and back again.

If you go to the front page the lowest bit is about related disorders.
 

R3K

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i usually look at it like: social anxiety disorder is the psychological cause that inevitably leads the (more) physical symptom that is depression, and various other un-fun things.
 

Diend

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I notice that I am more prone to depression and hopelessness when I don't get enough sleep. I thought I had beaten depression, but one day after sleeping at 2AM and getting up at 8AM, I felt depressed the entire day. So, maybe some more sleep and less time on the computer?
 

Lexington

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I don't think I've ever been clinically"depressed". Never 100% dark. That must be terrifying. Awful!
Social phobia is bad enough on its own thank you very much!
 

marwan kamel

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yes of course there is great correlation between them
if i have social anxiety iwill be alone and without friends and i will lose alot of chances in life and feel inferior to people so i will get a reactive deprssion
i my self have both SA and reactive depression but i think if my social phobia problems get away i will be not depressed so it is mostly reactive and not genetic or inborn type of depression
 
Are social anxiety and depression related
I've had SA for much longer than i started having major depression. Always had low-level depression possibly. It is suspicious that since leaving home, only a few years after that was when my major deprssions began, which hints at reactive. But then i've got genetic predisposition to depressive thinkng (& low-level depression). Maybe i have both? (but it took me living in virtual isolation for the major depression to surface, whereas before then i just had the low-level form/level of it)

Because I've been really upset lately and haven't had a "good day" in months. I've also gotten pissed off really easily for the past month or so
Somethng i've found, time and time again, is that getting into depression somwhat is like brewing a beer, first need all the raw ingredients (hops, water, sugar,.. all "harmless" at this stage), then you mix them all togther (leave to "brew" (or "stew"); irritability, mood swings, low energy, etc), and finally after a few weeks or months of this brewing, you get your ale (depression).
Of course ridding (drinking) it can be a lot quicker, however it can also be equally as complex & drawn-out as brewing it (eg brewing a fine whiskey will take a lot longer, & due to being expensive may also take lot longer to drink also!)
 
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I don't think I've ever been clinically"depressed". Never 100% dark. That must be terrifying. Awful!
Social phobia is bad enough on its own thank you very much!
Been there, done that, survived it. I call that place "hell central". You fear everything, and especially yourself. 100% hopelessless. But i survived it (but only just). Sometimes these days if my depression is partcularly bad, i ask myself 'how close am i to hell-central?' (to compare it to how bad it could be)
And i always thought before that (in my youth) that i "had it tough", what with my SA, BDD, OCPD, etc (!)
I think its safe to say that for myself, life has gradually gotten harder and harder as i've gotten older, and it still is doing so just as ever (but at the time, it tends to feel "as hard as it can get", at whatever age one is at)
 

MikeyC

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I'm more of a depression sufferer than social anxiety but I think the former has created the latter somewhat in this case.
 

Shyangel

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I think they can definitely go together. I think depending on whatever one you have first, one can likely trigger the other. Anxiety and depression are things that have fallowed me for my while life, so it's hard for me to say which one started which.
 

mikebird

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I think they can definitely go together. I think depending on whatever one you have first, one can likely trigger the other. Anxiety and depression are things that have fallowed me for my while life, so it's hard for me to say which one started which.

Yep. It's true. We have a repeating feedback loop (chicken & egg). Being alone (only child, no siblings) not getting on with parents... leads to difficulty approaching people

All we ever need in life is to get together with kindred spirits. We'd phoenix out of that, and prosper, immediately.

What's wrong with this site

Why not flourish beyond by revealing all our own details - age - contact details. Location. Get past that avatar. Put all our own faces up. I do

Find a kindred person in the same town. So simple. Make this a dating site. It's the way out. Skype has done that for me. Magic. I even fly to different countries to meet, once we had some quality communication

Stop moaning. That's my no.1 phrase to everyone, and it gets them smiling and laughing. I am a bit of a moaner here. I know. But I like myself. My main raison d'etre is humour. It works
 
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