Being immoral.. why is it that most people in the U.S prison system are religious?
That's because over 75% of the US is religious in one form or another.
Religion in America: U.S. Religious Data, Demographics and Statistics | Pew Research Center
I live in the US, and most people I come across are religious. Most interactions are secular in nature, you know there is no need for my friendly waiter to tell me about his trip to church the previous Sunday. And much like Atheism, it's the loudest, most obnoxious ones that makes people assume that everyone who carries religious beliefs are judgmental, close-minded, blind and blissfully ignorant idiots. Regardless of belief, at the end of the day most people are just people. They care about one another, they are tolerant and considerate, and they are not interested in making their life about hatefully attacking everyone who disagrees with their way of life.
Of course there are those who do live their lives that way. I am just trying to say that it is the minority.
I want to use my mother as an example here, as she is extremely religious. She literally goes to church seven days a week, and she is incredibly devoted to her faith.
Now, I go to church 0 days a week, and when I was in high school decided I didn't want to get confirmed in the church. I could tell it broke her heart to hear it, but she respected my decision and didn't treat me any differently than before. I think she trusted me to make the decision I felt was best, and that's what I did.
That all being said, I know there are many, many things that I do, and people my mother comes across that she believes to be wrong. And outside a pro-life bumper sticker on her car, she never imposes her beliefs onto anyone else. If someone opens up the conversation, she will happily talk to a person about it for hours if they let her. But she knows not everyone is interested in that, so it is generally something she keeps to herself.
As to me specifically, I do lots of things she doesn't agree with, whether it is eating meat on Friday or using the Lords name in vain. She never comments, she never pressures me to return to church, and she just generally wants me to be happy or fulfilled or accomplish whatever I want in life.
The example I really want to use here is after the last time I tried to kill myself, I decided I needed help and asked my mother. Now to anyone who is familiar with with Catholic church, you know suicide is one of the big no-no-straight-to-hell-do-not-pass-go-do-not-collect-$200 type sins.
And after I told her about it, she didn't throw me in the car and force me into a church. She didn't disown me until I was willing to cleanse my soul. She didn't tell me how awful a thing I had done. She didn't do anything like.
She just tried to help me. She brought me home. I went to the hospital for the next few weeks, and she visited regularly. And I have been living at home with my parents ever since. And she has let me know the church door are always open once, but other than that she has never, ever imposed her religion onto me. I am very grateful for my mother, who I know is always acting with my best interests at heart. Even when I do not act in accordance with her faith.
My point just being here, while we debate religion, just remember that there are good people and bad people in the world, and while what they believe sculpts their life, it doesn't make them good or bad. Everyone is people, whether they believe in God or multiple Gods or Buddha or nothing. And when I look at other people, I try to emulate my mother, which is not someone who judges them based on how their beliefs differ from hers, but looks to see how she is able to help them in their life, through their own perspective of the world. And considering this is a support forum, I would imagine that is the best avenue to take here as well. Everyone here is struggling in one way or another, and when we find ways to pick each other up it's amazing.