I agree with all of you, well most of ya anyway. I just thought it was interesting, how many people were saying, "If only I have a partner." or somewhat along the line of that. They wouldn't be a SP or whatever... But the more i thought about it, its just not only you that you have to think about. Its the other person too. Of course our imagination twist that **** around and feel like the other person is healthy and perfect. But the fact is that, everyone has their problems, and bringing someone into your life, when it is a mess, will only stress yourself more.