Pink_Paula
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It's funny that you say that, because when I was a little girl, and living in Italy with my granny, she used to keep my hair really short. I was really self-conscious about it because there was this big bully who used to pick on me and do mean things because he thought I was a boy. I came to school with a little purse once and he threw it over the fence and into the street because he said that boys do not have purses. He basically terrorized me throughout the year. For the longest time I felt self-conscious because I thought I looked like a boy. I think this is probably one of the subconscious reasons I keep my hair long and I don't think I would look good with short hair.
Grrrrr kids really can be so horrible, they just don't realise how cruel they are and the impact that they can leave on someone! But i've seen pics of you and have heard your voice and you really are very feminine, you should never have to worry about seeming masculine because that's just never going to happen!
I was bullied at school and at home for being taller than the other girls, they called me a man and said i shouldn't be in an all girls school, and when i was about 20 i had really short hair, i was out with my bf at the time we were holding hands and some guy in a care shouted out *"oi you need to keep that for inddors gays!" so ever since then i've worried i look too masculine, i have long hair now as well in the hopes that people won't confuse me for a man!