Possessive or not..

[Helmaninquiel]

Have you ever wanted a relationship where it was possessive love. You and your partner were the only ones in the world and you would do anything for each other. He would kill who ever looked at you. I guess I just like the jealous type for some reason.. I probably got it from all the Korean/Japanese drama's or Anime but I just love the idea of being that close to the person you love and never wanting to leave each other EVER and also the whole two guys fighting over you thing. lol

 

[Remus]

I was in a rel like that, for me it was a nightmare, often people who are that distrustful of you and possesive do so because they are the cheating type.

 

[Mickery]

Some fantasies should stay fantasy.

 

[Beatmetrics]

Errrrrrrrrrrm Boom! such a turn off. I had an ex like that. Felt like he had to ruin my life with other male friends in some effort to get me back or to make sure that if he couldn't have me no one should want me....ah...those are the people I try to stay my distance from. They'll ruin every connection around you just because they can't except somethings.


We virgos are intense people so yes i could understand how he was feeling. I wasn't feeling so hot about the break either but there is a time where you have just have to control yourself first. Agh!

 

[gazelle]

I was in a rel like that, for me it was a nightmare, often people who are that distrustful of you and possesive do so because they are the cheating type.

Very much agree, it's the cheating type that usually become possessive.I used to like the thought of having a possessive partner before getting into a relationship with a philanderer, it was OK for him to cheat as much as he liked but for me, I couldn't even have a normal talk with another guy without getting a caustic remark.
It's either that they have very low levels of self esteem or it's either that they think their partner is someone like themselves.

 

[pebblesdundee]

I'm ashamed to say I get slightly obbsesive, not to an extent such as you're saying, but sometimes I do lose control a bit and feel like I have to make sure the other person hasn't forgotten me, and isn't getting close to other people. I've got much better as I've matured as a person, and realised that if you love someone, you trust them, and if you're jealous, they can't mean that much to you

 

[Vampayah88]

I think the opposite,if my partner would never show any jealousy I'd think he doesn't care about me much and that he's indifferent. Being jealous is human nature.
As for possessiveness, thats a total turn on for me.

 

[Beatmetrics]

im sorry but if u cant be mature enough to show me in other ways that u care for me while in the relationship there is no reason to be with that person

 

[moksha]

it really depends on what circumstances u n ur partner met .. for me i dnt care nemore
,ive had worst partner in life nd seen ups n down....

 

[Helmaninquiel]

I think the opposite,if my partner would never show any jealousy I'd think he doesn't care about me much and that he's indifferent. Being jealous is human nature.
As for possessiveness, thats a total turn on for me.

I know I find it totally hot! Like I said before it's probably cause I watch to many Anime and drama's but still.. I wish. lol I don't know if it's sad or not but that's just my preference.

 

[Josette]

I sometimes find jealousy/possessiveness romantic in stories, but in RL it would be horrible. In stories it indicates deep feelings, but in RL it indicates insecurity and lack of trust.

 

[EnigmatiConduit]

"Possesive love" - it's more of a fantasy ideal. Jealously from your partner can cause problems with your friends and you can just end up feeling controlled and miserable. I think a partner that is totally and completely head over heels for you, would do anything to make you happy kind of love is the best kind, and there will always be a hint of jealousy in that... but it wont hurt you and your relationship.

 

[IGotSeoul]

Have you ever wanted a relationship where it was possessive love...

no personally, in fact, these are the type of things that drive me away from the idea of relationships.