Harleyq
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Ever met someone who you felt was the epitome of wise, collected, and put together? Someone who always has the right thing to say, who is open-minded, understanding, intelligent, and easy to get along with?
What do you think of them? I'd like to know because I'm having some conflicting feelings about a couple of people and I feel a bit bad about it. On one hand, I have a huge amount of admiration for these people and I want to be more like them. But on the other hand, I feel...jealous? Almost angry. I think things like "There's no way you practice what you preach. Be realistic about yourself, already!" and I find myself thinking that these people know the best thing to say and they're gifted logically, but that they can't emotionally live up to their own words as a whole, because I feel that nobody can. Everyone has some characteristic flaw, but these people seem to have none.
And of course this makes me feel like dirt. Who am I to judge these people without really knowing them? And it's not right to feel this way about them just because of insecurities I have about myself. And I'M the one who's making them out to be too good to be true. Of course they have their own flaws, but it's not their fault that they know how to control themselves to appear otherwise, at least to me...
I guess I'm wondering if other people get these feelings, too.
What do you think of them? I'd like to know because I'm having some conflicting feelings about a couple of people and I feel a bit bad about it. On one hand, I have a huge amount of admiration for these people and I want to be more like them. But on the other hand, I feel...jealous? Almost angry. I think things like "There's no way you practice what you preach. Be realistic about yourself, already!" and I find myself thinking that these people know the best thing to say and they're gifted logically, but that they can't emotionally live up to their own words as a whole, because I feel that nobody can. Everyone has some characteristic flaw, but these people seem to have none.
And of course this makes me feel like dirt. Who am I to judge these people without really knowing them? And it's not right to feel this way about them just because of insecurities I have about myself. And I'M the one who's making them out to be too good to be true. Of course they have their own flaws, but it's not their fault that they know how to control themselves to appear otherwise, at least to me...
I guess I'm wondering if other people get these feelings, too.
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