Organized harassment at work, need some advice.
This has been a recurring theme in my work and life in general. I believe that on top of anxiety, I have post traumatic stress disorder from early on. I simply have no understanding of social cues or etiquette, though I've always tried to be polite and understanding of people.
In this case, apparently an enemy from my past who is friends with someone in the office (I didn't know this), let loose on some not so great history of mine. Now their friends have mobbed up to make me feel uncomfortable indirectly - hinting they know about past personal situations without giving me an opportunity to respond directly.
These past things, while unfortunate, have been taken out of context and are generally misunderstood. It's to a point now though that they're actively trying to do away with me and once again I'm without a livelihood.
This all comes after years of trying to get help, advice, medications, etc. I don't really know where to go from here.
Here's what I really need advice on...
I figure they have me made out to be a bad guy because of a one-sided rat from my past. Being that I'm socially inept and I guess, make them feel uncomfortable to be around, I suppose the only human reaction is to take away my ability to earn a living.
But I've decided to not take it all lying down - or at least giving a good fight. I just don't know where to start. I'm in a small office, I report to a manager. Then there's a VP.
I'm worried about talking to anyone, but feel it's severe enough to sit down with the VP. I don't trust my direct manager, and I'm concerned that no matter who I talk to, even the VP, that they're going to look at me like I'm bat **** crazy and play stupid. Then, things will get worse from that point.
One thing's for sure, I think the only way is to meet it head on. Do you think I should pull aside a co-worker or go to the VP? How do normal people handle these types of situations, if they were ever in them?
Really appreciate any advice.
This has been a recurring theme in my work and life in general. I believe that on top of anxiety, I have post traumatic stress disorder from early on. I simply have no understanding of social cues or etiquette, though I've always tried to be polite and understanding of people.
In this case, apparently an enemy from my past who is friends with someone in the office (I didn't know this), let loose on some not so great history of mine. Now their friends have mobbed up to make me feel uncomfortable indirectly - hinting they know about past personal situations without giving me an opportunity to respond directly.
These past things, while unfortunate, have been taken out of context and are generally misunderstood. It's to a point now though that they're actively trying to do away with me and once again I'm without a livelihood.
This all comes after years of trying to get help, advice, medications, etc. I don't really know where to go from here.
Here's what I really need advice on...
I figure they have me made out to be a bad guy because of a one-sided rat from my past. Being that I'm socially inept and I guess, make them feel uncomfortable to be around, I suppose the only human reaction is to take away my ability to earn a living.
But I've decided to not take it all lying down - or at least giving a good fight. I just don't know where to start. I'm in a small office, I report to a manager. Then there's a VP.
I'm worried about talking to anyone, but feel it's severe enough to sit down with the VP. I don't trust my direct manager, and I'm concerned that no matter who I talk to, even the VP, that they're going to look at me like I'm bat **** crazy and play stupid. Then, things will get worse from that point.
One thing's for sure, I think the only way is to meet it head on. Do you think I should pull aside a co-worker or go to the VP? How do normal people handle these types of situations, if they were ever in them?
Really appreciate any advice.
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