theoutsidergirl
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I've been at my new job for 2 months now. I seem to get along with everyone(miracle), but since the christmas party things are going off. Because I have SA I'm always a bit shy and insecure and try to sweet talk everyone(manily guys).
At the party I danced with one of my co-workers(a bit too close I guess :shyness and now they are all giving me *hints* that make me believe I'm a slut to them. Like, f.ex. we were talking about a friend's illness and that it's contageous. And then one guy asky me whether I have any contageous diseases...like wtf?! And then he goes on asking me where the co-worker is, with whom I danced(he was ill for a while...) of course he knew.
Then the other co-workers start talking mand making jokes about sluts and women....in a degrading sort of way(all at work). I really dislike that...
Because of my SA I try really hard to be nice to everyone and to fit in - now I think they kinda misunderstood my intentions....mg:
What should I do?
I'm trying now to fokus more on my work and wear clothes that are more baggy to hide my curves.
At the party I danced with one of my co-workers(a bit too close I guess :shyness and now they are all giving me *hints* that make me believe I'm a slut to them. Like, f.ex. we were talking about a friend's illness and that it's contageous. And then one guy asky me whether I have any contageous diseases...like wtf?! And then he goes on asking me where the co-worker is, with whom I danced(he was ill for a while...) of course he knew.
Then the other co-workers start talking mand making jokes about sluts and women....in a degrading sort of way(all at work). I really dislike that...
Because of my SA I try really hard to be nice to everyone and to fit in - now I think they kinda misunderstood my intentions....mg:
What should I do?
I'm trying now to fokus more on my work and wear clothes that are more baggy to hide my curves.