I have had one gf, her choice. I have tried online dating, because I'm in a small village but it isnt working so basically I think its time to accept that am obviously unattractive both in looks and in personality. I hate being single so much. I just want to find that someone to possibly spend my life with but I obviously have no chance....
no chance
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Does 'her choice' mean she made the moves on you, rather than the other way around?
You're 17, and you've already had one girlfriend. I was older than that before my first girlfriend.
Your premise--it is flawed, sir.
You're 17, and you've already had one girlfriend. I was older than that before my first girlfriend.
Your premise--it is flawed, sir.
Amitush123
Well-known member
Had 6 gfs (I'm 25 now), first one only when I was 19.
You got nothing to worry about
Amitush123
Well-known member
Many join everyday.
Moft of the women I msg do not reply, although I am not ugly, or atleast not very ugly.
Keep trying, don't give up...it's worth it
You can change looks and can work on your personality too. You are still young.
Maybe you were trying too hard, often girls don't like too much pressure...
I sometimes get hopeless too, but am significantly older than you. Still, there are people who find love later in life, some of my relatives married (and divorced) late too...
Maybe you were trying too hard, often girls don't like too much pressure...
I sometimes get hopeless too, but am significantly older than you. Still, there are people who find love later in life, some of my relatives married (and divorced) late too...
If you want something badly, a twist of the Murphy's law; you won't get it.
SilentBird
Well-known member
I'm just one lost soul
Swimming in a fish bowl,
Year after year
Swimming in a fish bowl,
Year after year
mikebird
Banned
I've tried introducing a temporary girlfriend to a known girl friend in our group, at their home
or when we meet at night, out or elsewhere. To friends' weddings... 3 times... local friends introduced to a new girlfriend from abroad - South African, Malaysian, Italian and Turkish... meeting others in London! Hackney & Leytonstone
No idea if it's right or wrong? Either sees the other as bad or good. Judgement
My fault?
eg.
Told at a wedding, attending with my cutest, smartest best girlfriend I ever knew, recovering from rejection, eventually
She told me, after the big wedding party, with all best, closest mates from uni, that "I had no friends"
Therefore she gave up :sad: oooohh the oldskool buzzword of... networkin'
Never quite tried introductions via Skype yet... oh I did, when Mum spoke to my Italian from home, who saved my life by taking me to Verbania Hospital, and we all met for Xmas soon after
I have shown my neighbour cat to my dad on camera to my Dad, spinning her on my swivel chair, confusing her pleasantly
Anywhere in a wifi cafe on the planet, I can video chat anyone, pointing a camera at... the beach, or the ski slopes. But it makes me a geek?
or when we meet at night, out or elsewhere. To friends' weddings... 3 times... local friends introduced to a new girlfriend from abroad - South African, Malaysian, Italian and Turkish... meeting others in London! Hackney & Leytonstone
No idea if it's right or wrong? Either sees the other as bad or good. Judgement
My fault?
eg.
Told at a wedding, attending with my cutest, smartest best girlfriend I ever knew, recovering from rejection, eventually
She told me, after the big wedding party, with all best, closest mates from uni, that "I had no friends"
Therefore she gave up :sad: oooohh the oldskool buzzword of... networkin'
Never quite tried introductions via Skype yet... oh I did, when Mum spoke to my Italian from home, who saved my life by taking me to Verbania Hospital, and we all met for Xmas soon after
I have shown my neighbour cat to my dad on camera to my Dad, spinning her on my swivel chair, confusing her pleasantly
Anywhere in a wifi cafe on the planet, I can video chat anyone, pointing a camera at... the beach, or the ski slopes. But it makes me a geek?