Needing advice about...guys?

[Let_It_Go]

I've never had a bf and I'm not that confident around guys . .I'm really awkward/shy/nervous even If I don't find them that attractive and when I do like a guy I usually don't tell them that I like them so I'm wondering how can I tell if a guy is attracted to me? and how do i get them to ask me out?

 

[userremoved]

If you catch him looking at you a lot that might be a clue. Also if he tries to talk to you for no apparent reason too. As for getting him to ask you out, the way I usually see girls getting a guys attention is by making eye contact and smiling. Usually for a confident guy, thats all the confirmation he needs to swoop in and make his move, if he's interested that is.

 

[Lanciao37]

Well i tend to stare at the filly, and if they look at me i will look away, as if i've just a seen a wasp out of the corner of my eye.

Me too & It works However I just dont know which look means what? Seems they will either stare back and smile or Give the most intense Lee van cleef kind of stare, And I dont know what all of this means?
I think If they look away before you do its game over? or is it?

Someone help

 

[Mickery]

Somebody has to look away first! It doesn't have to mean anything.

 

[Beatrice]

Ahahahahahah, I love the replies

 

[Pacific_Loner]

I think If they look away before you do its game over? or is it?

Definitely not game over.

But what's that staring game anyway?

 

[userremoved]

Definitely not game over.

But what's that staring game anyway?

I dont know about staring lol, but I know men tend to be very visual when it comes to attraction.

 

[Pacific_Loner]

I dont know about staring lol, but I know men tend to be very visual when it comes to attraction.

No matter who it is and how, if the person don't look away when I look back (except if it's a friend), I always find it endlessly creepy and annoying... but maybe it's just me.

 

[userremoved]

No it's not just you, staring is not cool.

 

[Kiwong]

Well i tend to stare at the filly, and if they look at me i will look away, as if i've just a seen a wasp out of the corner of my eye.

I look away quickly from everyone, it's my anxiety, not attraction.

 

[caringsoul]

when a guy says to you ' i love you' .. and he doesnt talk to you much or really gotten to know you, then doubt that. also, if a guy likes you, he would do more than just stare. he will come up to you and talk to you.

 

[caringsoul]

Pfft, i'm guessing you're a woman.

yeah, i am apparently..

 

[NathanielWingatePeaslee]

if a guy likes you, he would do more than just stare. he will come up to you and talk to you.

I think what Tino means is that that's not necessarily true. A guy who is shy or has anxiety problems might gawk at you almost involuntarily because he likes you, but have no idea how to approach you, or be too nervous, or afraid of rejection, or a bunch of other reasons.

 

[userremoved]

I think being threaten by an angry bear might be just what I need to get me out of my shell and talking to available women. Unfortunately I don't know anyone who owns one or would be kind enough to do that for me. Though I'm not quite sure if me crying with urine soaked jeans with a snarling animal standing behind me would be a good first impression.

 

[cosmosis]

Back when I was in school, I think I used to stare at people all the time. I didn't really mean to do it, I think I was just daydreaming, lost in my own world. But I think a few girls thought it was because I was attracted to them. I would get a letter every so often saying something along the lines of 'I've seen you looking at me and I like you too".

 

[caringsoul]

I would rather fight a bear than approach some women, and that's not because i don't like them. Women are really the only things that make me feel like a pussy.

what if the bear was a woman?

 

[coyote]

i'd watch you fight a kangaroo

 

[N0D]

YouTube - ‪kangaroo fight‬‏

 

[userremoved]

Jeeze dude, control your freakin kangaroo!

 

[tommyiscool]

sigh,you and me will be perfect together