My first time sex next week

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bony666

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vydelia said:
this just means there is someone else better meant for you :)
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thanks, hope so. even if It's hard to stay hopeful after all that happened to me. Having SP has made my life a hell for long long years: I don't see the end of this loneliness. There is no Affection at all in my life.
 
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bony666

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redski said:
Sorry this happened to you.
I guess you didn't put out and he moved on.
Not all guys are like this though, yes maybe more then one would like to believe but not all of them.
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where are those 'good guys' everyone talks about ? I have only met A***H**les since I started going out
 
NathanielWingatePeaslee

NathanielWingatePeaslee

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bony666 said:
where are those 'good guys' everyone talks about ? I have only met A***H**les since I started going out
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I think there's a couple of factors involved in this. One, when you first meet someone it's easier to tell who's going to be a **** and who's not with experience.

Two, as someone else on this forum said recently, social phobics tend to attract mean people like magnets. ::(:
 
redski

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NathanielWingatePeaslee said:
I think there's a couple of factors involved in this. One, when you first meet someone it's easier to tell who's going to be a **** and who's not with experience.

Two, as someone else on this forum said recently, social phobics tend to attract mean people like magnets. ::(:
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This seems to be so true. I have always wondered why.
I have my ideas but what do others think I wonder.
 
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bony666

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NathanielWingatePeaslee said:
A quiet, introverted, non-aggressive person is an easy target, or at least appears to be. Same difference for this purpose.
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yes, but I wasn't quiet, after therapy last year I became more outgoing, and was really involved in this relationship. I didn't show any weakness; I just said I wanted to live my sex life like any other woman, and he acted like a Pig*,
I was actually ready to have sex, and was actually starting to like him We just saw each other on Tuesday, didn't have sex, but still: everything was fine. and Today he breaks up with me by TEXT Message !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!???????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What's wrong here: Don't we have enough suffering with SP at work, school, everywhere ??!!!!!!!!. Does it also need to hit our love/sex life ??!!!!!!!!

I have lost hope...........
 
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