fedupoffear88
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Everyday is a challenge in itself now, so i guess I've already won ur challenge. Just looking sum1 in the eye is a big challenge now!!!!!
My CHALLENGE 4 u...if u dare
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fedupoffear88
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I do look ppl in the eye still and talk to them and like i said, its a BIG challenge, but i always undertake it and overcome...eventho im feeling extremely selfconscious and nervous.
Ok, I know we have social anxieties but what is your BIGGEST fear? Large crowds? One on one conversation? I want u to think about it. Could u stand in a large crowd without having to say a word? Could u stay in a small room with just one other person but had to talk to them?
I want to challenge you to chose what ur biggest fear is and face it. For just ONE minute. So starting 2moro (and I will check up on you) I want u to for just ONE MINUTE or 30 seconds :
I accept your challenge!
CosmicNeurotica
Banned
Oh for a minute I thought forgotten said he was afraid of very large clouds.
I was going to say that's very interesting.
For the topic, I'm going to a Dallas Mavericks game. Does that count? Or do I have to talk to someone while I'm there? Because I'm pretty sure that's out of the question.
I was going to say that's very interesting.
For the topic, I'm going to a Dallas Mavericks game. Does that count? Or do I have to talk to someone while I'm there? Because I'm pretty sure that's out of the question.
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Smurfette
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Toolshuggah, it counts if it's one of ur fears. Step by step is all I ask.
Today I didn't meet my goal. Yes, I talked to someone but maybe just for 10 seconds. That being said, I am going to have to start smaller and work my way up to 30 seconds, etc.
How about the rest of you?
Today I didn't meet my goal. Yes, I talked to someone but maybe just for 10 seconds. That being said, I am going to have to start smaller
and work my way up to 30 seconds, etc. How about the rest of you?
Blake The Great Ect...
Member
Im down! I will walk into walkmart
petrified eyes
Well-known member
I didn't call my friend, but I did send her a text message asking if she could call me (thanks mismeek) and she replied that she would when she gets time. So, not exactly what I set out to do but close enough!
Kat
Well-known member
I can understand not wanting to be video tape for privacy reasons but It be good if people could use a recorder and post up some of their achieved challenges.
I am going to the movies on Friday it’s not a huge anxiety for me but it does make me a little on edge enough for my skin to break out in a rash. Also depends on how busy it is.
Good luck everyone!
I am going to the movies on Friday it’s not a huge anxiety for me but it does make me a little on edge enough for my skin to break out in a rash. Also depends on how busy it is.
Good luck everyone!
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Confuseddd
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so i did it
I GOT MY HAIR CUT !!!
It doesnt look too bad i suppose hehh...
It was just as bad as i thought it was gonna be though anxiety wise :/
BUT
every cloud has a silver lining, and well the outcome was good, the anxiety was lying to me
I GOT MY HAIR CUT !!!
It doesnt look too bad i suppose hehh...
It was just as bad as i thought it was gonna be though anxiety wise :/
BUT
every cloud has a silver lining, and well the outcome was good, the anxiety was lying to me
Smurfette
Well-known member
Good to hear about your days guys! I find it comforting that when I struggle with tasks like these, that someone out there relates with me and that kinda helps in the moment too Today I didn't do much but yesterday I went to a lounge with 2 friends. You know what that means. Music, lotza ppl and noise. Oh boy. I struggle when I'm left at my table alone (like when they go to the bathroom and leave me there ) Like, what the heck?! Now what?! I usually pick up a menu or start "texting" (pretending sometimes). How pathetic is that!! What do you guys do? Do you feel awkward then too? And what do you do? Or think?
Good luck on 2moro's goals!
Today I didn't do much but yesterday I went to a lounge with 2 friends. You know what that means. Music, lotza ppl and noise. Oh boy. I struggle when I'm left at my table alone (like when they go to the bathroom and leave me there ) Like, what the heck?! Now what?! I usually pick up a menu or start "texting" (pretending sometimes). How pathetic is that!! What do you guys do? Do you feel awkward then too? And what do you do? Or think?Good luck on 2moro's goals!
Lol, I ran "though" walmart once... ROFL. I felt like a complete idiot and I'm sure I made a fool of myself, both in RL and here, but who cares - it taught me not to care what people think of me at all.