I'm bad at it too. I can force it, but it feels very awkward for me. I used to have to do it all the time when I worked with customers. After awhile is I think i got pretty good at acting like I was interested in what they were saying. It almost became like autopilot where I would do small talk without thinking about it. I've since lost that skill.
Makes you feel sort of dead inside doesn't it
I think people make small talk just because silence makes them uncomfortable. They feel ask though something needs to be said at all times. And then other people just love to talk about anything and everything.
I find small talk very difficult too.
I'm not too bad at answering questions from somebody, e.g. "How are you?" - "Fine, thanks", but I find it next to impossible to go on to respond with a question to them which is - as far as I know - what normal humans do
Because of this I'd imagine I come across as quite rude and uninterested to others.
theres a woman who lives across the road from me and shes always trying to feed me home made soup so that she can use my phone
i just look at the ground these days, and say "aye"