Lost my Personality?

[anxiety1408]

I don't have a "personality" anymore. I just do/say/act whatever/however I feel like at the moment. I "act" all the time. Don't really care anymore, though. "We are what we pretend to be" after all, no?

we are what we pretend to be, but it may not be who WE feel most comfortable being, we may act in certain ways to blend in but deep down there might be another part of us that would behave differently. On a more positive note theres a quote that goes something like this "Life isnt about finding yourself, Its about creating yourself".

 

[arsenalwa]

we are what we pretend to be, but it may not be who WE feel most comfortable being, we may act in certain ways to blend in but deep down there might be another part of us that would behave differently. On a more positive note theres a quote that goes something like this "Life isnt about finding yourself, Its about creating yourself".

That's right. As long as we have SA though, we would never be able to behave completely the way we want to. So that part of us will have to wait a while

 

[Silvox Black]

You need not fret over the matter. Personality is molded and forged from experiences in life, your beliefs, and your values. Being confident and having no anxiety does not equate to having good conversational skills. You need not worry over such things, they are skills you develop and with support here in the forum, you will learn to converse in ever so strange and amusing ways.